Dr. Nicole LePera
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Sunday 06 September 2026 18:31:53 GMT
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katzilla17 :
My parents treat me 1000% better when my husband is around and then back to horrible when he isn't around. It's like they mask themselves around him. It's weird.
2026-09-09 16:28:37
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Tay | Booktok 📖 💫👾 :
Yeah this would irritate me. Leave me and my relationship alone.
2026-09-15 08:17:25
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Ms. D :
My husband and I spent 5 weeks digging my mother out of her hoarder house after she fell and broke her hip. She started yelling at me at one point and I shut down (trauma response) but my husband immediately cut her off and said “if you continue to talk to my wife like that I will pack her up and take her home and leave you to deal with all of this by yourself. She has been killing herself to make your house safe and livable for you, and I will NOT let you treat her like this any more.” I have never felt more loved and protected by someone in my whole life. She NEVER did that again either (in front of my husband).
2026-09-07 13:27:40
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~Raven~⊗ :
my family tried to convince me that my bf was gonna murder, r*pe me and that he didn't actually like me for anything besides my body the day before I first stayed at his, afterwards (they'd never met before) after seeing a picture of him they bodyshamed him. They also just treated me really weirdly after I wanted to stop talking to them whenever I was at his (there's way more reasons for that)
2026-09-14 19:42:12
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dookje._.engelhard :
My mom was jealous when I got married. She never got married.
2026-09-06 20:28:35
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Simplyme1100 :
Omgggggggg my mom she was so jelious yep of course omg 😦
2026-09-14 09:06:05
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Robert Green666 :
My mother hated my wife and my sister's husband even more. Then my mum wondered why we never visited
2026-09-14 14:29:46
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stillbetween38 :
Siblings hate it too!
2026-09-07 22:41:35
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ira castaneda :
CUT TIES.....IF u can....its the only way. it sucks HARD....but its the only final way to free yourself. good luck everyone🥰🥰
2026-09-07 08:07:22
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nails_by_emma16 :
My mom has actually tried to break up me and my boyfriend and I know she hates him. I don't care because I love him more than I fear any punishment my mother can force upon me. I'm actually happy now. And we have a lizard 😁
2026-09-09 03:34:07
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Dr. Melanie - Psychologist :
As a psychologist, I think this is such an important dynamic to name - a healthy partner can make old family patterns much easier to see because suddenly you’re experiencing consistency, boundaries, and emotional safety as the norm. For some emotionally immature parents, that shift can feel threatening because the child is no longer as available to participate in the old roles or chaos. Choosing healthier relationships can be part of breaking the pattern. Follow my page for more on relationships, boundaries, and healing old survival patterns💛
2026-09-10 15:49:16
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Grace :
So true. My husband is the best thing that happened to me and now I’m going on two years with no contact with my narcissistic controlling parents.
2026-09-12 02:01:31
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2morrow4sho :
Dont share anything w your parents if they aren’t emotionally mature
2026-09-12 00:09:25
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Srjo3183 :
My mom would insult me in front of him, bring up embarrassing stories (not in a cute way) and swoon over him and shower him with gifts on his bday while not acknowledging mine. She also ruined my bridal shower and did everything she could to make me feel awful the days leading up to my wedding.
2026-09-06 22:43:42
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AJ :
There are so many mental health providers who are created on here, but you are seriously the best!! All of the information in your videos ls so relatable and educational. Thank you !! ❤️
2026-09-11 00:15:42
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maddie_obrine22 :
My MIL was livid she wasn’t “included” in our wedding day…we eloped & actually that same day I was hit by a car 6 weeks pregnant while walking in a parking lot. None of that mattered, she only cared that we didn’t FT her when we signed the papers or invited her to be there..I was bed ridden for weeks and couldn’t walk properly for months. That day is tainted for me now. Much more has happened since then, and we don’t speak to them anymore as of right now.
2026-09-07 17:07:17
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Countrymom83 :
My MIL to a T! Apparently I have brainwashed everyone in my family, and I put the idea of what a healthy relationship looks like in her son’s head and she doesn’t like it
2026-09-08 13:41:48
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spiceyflower :
OH MY DAYS THIS IS MY MOTHER. She can’t stand that my husband protects & stands up for me 😂
2026-09-08 10:20:12
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sconesandcoffee :
Well no worries. I can’t find a good partner because of how I had to survive growing up.
2026-09-06 19:43:16
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Your Mum 🐈🐈⬛ :
Yep. My mother in law has targeted me since I’m the problem. 🙄 😂
2026-09-06 18:40:51
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Ashley :
T.H.I.S.!!!!!! My mother a few months ago suddenly said that even though she "loves" my husband, but she thi k there is something wrong with him, that he putting ideas in my head, etc I whiplash so hard but couldn't argue cause she was driving...... and I still havent been able to tell her off, it unfortunately been months now, and she "healing" from a lot of medical and emotional stuff. She moved to another state to live with her Brother and family, while it been less stressful, it unfortunately still bothers me that I can't explain to her how I felt without her being immature about it.
2026-09-10 21:23:11
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krookedridgefarms :
My mother said that my husband and I act like we’re still in high school with being lovey dovey….👀 Her and my dad’s marriage was terrible.
2026-09-09 19:19:02
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ZOE Yoga Lifestyle | Healing :
These are narc traits.
2026-09-08 16:37:10
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britt_eliz_85 :
My mom used to try to set me up with other men when I was married to my husband.
2026-09-09 21:40:52
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Dii :
Yes, yes, yes. They tried to get me to divorce my husband. I started to set boundaries when begun to get the courage and spend time with my kid and husband as we wanted to instead of how they wanted,they told me that my husband is putting these things and thoughts into my head and this is not normal ( was always told that I am way too dumb to think on my own)I should be more concerned of them instead of my life. The last conversation I had with them was when they couldn’t reach me while I was at work ( my phone is always off as per company standards) and they accused my husband of forbidding me of speaking with them. Even accused me of lying to them that I am at work and it is impossible to work all the time they needed my attention. No contact for 7 years and happiest as I have ever been, still together with my husband and with a family that actually likes me.
2026-09-08 14:37:17
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