It does seem like you’re in the wrong.Im at the start of a new relationship and we have met twice and sent loads of messages to each other despite our heavy work schedules
2026-09-15 07:58:35
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Peter Brogden :
I think he was a bit petty but you could of explained your not well or your busy if you read a message you can reply x
2026-09-15 05:10:23
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lou mcewan :
it seems like this isn't red flags from him. one red flag for me is ppl seeing the message n just choosing not to read or reply..I had years of it it just brings bk memories no one is that busy for someone they want to be with
2026-09-14 20:53:25
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Jo green :
he's trying but you r dragging your heels
2026-09-15 08:51:33
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Alan :
I'm just going to float this out there, is too much texting at the early stages that wise? A lot of communication IRL is conveyed through tone, inflection, facial expressions, gestures etc.... all this is missed in texts, so if you don't know the person it's easy for any of us to misinterpret the true meaning of a text, especially if using humor - easily taken up wrong.... whatch think?
2026-09-13 23:13:10
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Tara Dunne :
Ye sorry but u were able to see his good morning txt but were too busy to reply till evening time ! U over reacted big time
2026-09-13 23:31:24
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JustMe :
He makes the effort to contact you, but you haven’t got 2 seconds and don’t respond until he contacts you again… you’re the red flag. 🚩
2026-09-07 02:11:58
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Ita1568 :
It sounds like you weren’t sp interested or you would have responded and not worked all day. People who are really interested will always make 2 mins. Sorry just being honest
2026-09-06 18:43:51
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Karenfrances :
I think when your into someone it only takes 10 seconds to send a quick reply
2026-09-07 15:29:46
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John Oliver655 :
Super busy clearing my garage😂😂😂
2026-09-08 15:32:15
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Dark Hippo 🦛 :
no ones to busy to send a 2 minute text. even if you do it on the toilet. communication is key. haha super busy doing a garage and meeting friends . definitely had time to text and say your busy
2026-09-07 06:00:47
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erik :
He was right it takes two mins to send a tx
2026-09-07 22:32:19
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66kc05 :
Just different communication styles, though it does only take 2 seconds to answer a text, if it was your friend asking you something you would have answered I think, but he does sound melodramatic as well. I would be gutted if I were him.
2026-09-08 19:07:11
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Col 1N :
Doesn’t take 2 seconds to send a text even if someone is busy that would be a red flag to me
2026-09-08 10:09:00
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user4761617299498 :
It’s you… you showed him disinterest. Engage in dating the same way you would like a man to treat you and you may get different results
2026-09-07 20:38:36
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GrumpyBoy :
you didn't like him enough. No way you will be late in responding if u really wanted him.
2026-09-10 02:44:38
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Nuley1 :
You did not over react, definitely done tye right thing … don’t doubt yourself. Good luck going forward 👍
2026-09-08 20:42:29
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Kat :
He literally would have thought you were ghosting him
2026-09-07 17:30:37
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Ian Burns :
if someone is keen they find a way to respond to a message, infact they are eager to chat. When you say "i was too busy all day" I think you weren't that interested. which is fine, but you shouldn't deflect
2026-09-08 21:05:25
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Chris Holmes :
Na.. It's you being the red flag if I had arranged to do something then got ignored for 2 days I would be thinking the same thing.
It takes 30 seconds to send a message there's no excuse
2026-09-07 10:15:12
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NazzzzzzzyB :
You left him on read…..and neither did you take the initiative to message him - it takes 30 seconds to message whilst clearing the garage.
2026-09-07 13:01:36
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Mr Paul :
yes red flag I wouldn't date you after not replying
2026-09-07 17:12:47
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Adam Hopkinson :
63 how old r u ??
2026-09-06 19:33:18
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sunnyskies36 :
You keep saying you have no time if you were really into him you would have made the time!
2026-09-07 09:36:08
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neurodivergentandproud :
Seriously- you could have just replied. It takes a second. come on - you know that right
2026-09-07 17:07:08
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