Salty the Cop
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Sunday 06 September 2026 19:05:37 GMT
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elizabeththomps751 :
My guy, you're too kind. It seems like you are presuming that these individuals, specifically the person you were in a relationship, actually care or cared at any point about how their words affected you (or generically, their significant other). I'm a lawyer and, unfortunately, am blessed to be around the most narcissistic, insecure people on the face of the planet. It's insecurity in themselves that makes them seek the "next best thing," degrade the person they claim to love most and trash you to make themselves feel better. They wreck absolute havoc with your head (gaslighting) and emotions (swinging back and forth). Here's the kicker - they will never change, they don't want to change nor will they acknowledge what they've done. They don't deserve empathy. They view it as a weakness in you rather than themselves. They only deserve isolation and to be ignored. Once I see these traits in people, I block them out because I know they will never change, improve or acknowledge what they have done. Keep your peace, they don't deserve empathy.
2026-09-06 19:43:11
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Sarah Jane :
This resonates with me! I understand all this so well. I just left a 23 year relationship, 17 years married. Going through Divorce currently. It’s been so challenging finally letting go. I’m becoming stronger everyday! Appreciate your encouragement ✨✨
2026-09-18 02:14:31
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BeautifullyUnspoken :
One of the main reasons why I’m still in therapy….feeling like I don’t deserve love. It’s easier to give love than accept it.
2026-09-06 23:22:43
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tucker :
It comes back out when they know they got you back. If someone could not respect your boundaries and change what is hurting you. THAT is how they truly feel about you.
2026-09-17 01:17:05
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Yep..I got this :
First what the heck are you pulling? Second, harsh, but I think you’re not letting go. No more sadness, let me see a smile or this old gal will get on your ass. You got this..HUGS n Love.
2026-09-06 20:16:26
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Jane :
I’m not chosen & that’s ok, at one point I wanted closure but I’m okay without it. At this point in my life I don’t need the closure, I’m far from perfect but one day. The father our Lord will bring me my missing rib. I agree with you on this 💯 I have had my own insecurities but I started loving myself and respecting myself more. Work on you, allow God to work everything else out. Don’t beg for love don’t chase it. Let go & let God because at the end of the day you don’t have control over the things people do but you do have control over your own actions. Let the past be the past and keep going forward. I’ve learned from a divorce that never happened, I chose to leave my marriage for myself. Unfortunately it ended in tragedy, 7 months after filing he passed away in a car accident. Yes it hurt still, but I pulled myself together for myself for my kids… I had to. I loved my kids don’t get me wrong but I loved me more. I chose to break the cycle and I worked on myself. I want to eventually show my kids what it means to be loved 🥰 how love is supposed to be bc marriage is convenient it’s the closest thing to heaven. So I’ve been through the trenches and this is for those that are going through it… you will get passed it. It takes time but find yourself and give yourself grace too. We aren’t all perfect and we all fall short but that doesn’t mean we are a bad person. Allow God to carry you through it all 💯
2026-09-11 02:21:07
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Colette Matranga :
Just stay, true yourself and your kids and your family and trust God the rest will follow🙏🙏🙏 you and God has this!!🙏🙏🙏
2026-09-07 02:50:24
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Cami Henderson :
I feel everything you are saying. I devote myself to the man I’m with and end up getting dumped for another woman. I’ve had to accept the fact I may never have that ever after with someone. I’ve mourned it. Now I take it one day at a time. I now respect myself too much to let the past drag me down and hope I’ll be brave enough one day to try another relationship. Thank you for sharing! 🙏❤️
2026-09-13 21:30:53
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Michelle Pogodzinski-North :
My therapist is going to try and help me to get confidence and also see my worth. That's hard for me. I feel selfish even thinking that I'm worthy. God bless 🙏
2026-09-10 02:05:23
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Mandy Lee :
When people put you down enough you start to believe it, and it’s a war in my brain to reverse that perception. Side note-it is mind blowing that someone didn’t think you were good enough and let you go. You’re damn near perfect 💙😊
2026-09-06 19:30:28
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Karen Keenan137 :
I am trying to be a better version of myself. One day at a time!
2026-09-14 20:04:56
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Kattie 🤔🥰 :
I am still waiting on God to send me the love like I had I am so ready to receive it 🤍✝️🫂
2026-09-12 02:48:33
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angie langley :
THANK you so much you help me by listening to you more than people I have known all my life May God continue to bless you and keep you safe
2026-09-06 23:21:21
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Bree J :
Good morning my friend. Thank you so much for this message this morning I really needed it🥰🙏
2026-09-14 15:11:00
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wompers :
You are correct but you are awesome and are helping so many people with your wisdom
2026-09-15 22:34:07
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Trent 🇺🇲 :
Very much so
2026-09-12 09:53:39
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whole2half❤️ :
Amen and God bless 🙏❤️
2026-09-08 11:52:58
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Lori L :
Healing, moving forward. Being around others where you’re celebrated not tolerated. 🥰
2026-09-07 01:48:19
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The Irish Princess :
We all have fallen short of the glory of God 🙏
2026-09-07 01:36:30
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joandobbs :
AMEN AND AMEN 🙏 Been through the mill so they say. It took me a long time...with Jesus and counseling to realize that I am not what I have been told I am. (hurts when it involves family). I also learned it wasn't about me...their own insecurities triggered their emotions. I'm not perfect....not by a longshot..but each day I pray and seek God for wisdom..how can I improve myself..who can I help? Words are so powerful..and you can't take them back. I've forgiven those who hurt me..and pray for them. Life is difficult...but with God and the right people in your life.. you can breathe a little easier.
2026-09-06 23:48:27
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farmall-Shaunna :
I can’t say thank you and amen enough for everything you post you don’t know how many people you are helping!
2026-09-07 00:35:07
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Karen :
I missed hearing from you, glad you are back on God bless 🙏
2026-09-07 01:40:27
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Beloved 💞 :
Let go, let God💯💯💯
2026-09-06 20:36:05
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brandyjane2 :
I disagree with you, but I like you.., I like your words and I love that I lfind someone else and can appreciate their opinion.🙌🏼
2026-09-07 01:16:36
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Newlife24! :
I don't believe it's as much about loving the person that we start out as in the beginning , but more of loving each other as time moves on and we learn more about the not so perfect parts of one another ... and having the willingness to being a better and healthier version of ourselves for each lover
2026-09-07 02:41:22
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