@lottie..weaver: I feel like a lot of parents can relate to this, especially as our kids get older and are all in different activities! #MomsofTikTok #momof3 #girlmom #motherhood #parents
I get why going for berklies last activities is so important (bc it's the last time you'll do it), but I feel like the 7 year old travelling out of state would need your support more emotionally. And while her memory is short - you not being there for an important competition is something she'll definitely remember. But I'm a youngest child so maybe that's why I'm triggered by this 😭😭😭
2026-09-06 21:17:55
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Maddie clark :
Can’t you and your husband take them separately
2026-09-06 21:36:34
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Eleee :
you need to take turns
2026-09-06 21:12:35
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G💌🧘🏼♀️ :
i still remember the one gymnastics competition my mom didn’t come to when I was 8 because she had to go to my older sister swim meet 😂😂😂
2026-09-06 20:50:52
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- Anne Camilla 📚🇩🇰 :
I get what you’re saying, I can understand where you’re coming from… BUT, that being said… Berklie is old enough to understand you can’t be at every single thing she has, since it sounds like it’s a ton, cause her sisters’ things from time to time will clash with her things. You really gotta keep in mind that as long as a parent is there, evenly for each, and things have been explained to them, they won’t have a problem. It’s your momma heart that’s scared of missing out on firsts and lasts in a sense.
2026-09-06 21:56:37
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kaidynce :
games are weekly, sometimes multiple times a week- competitions are only like once a month, and they work so hard for that. your little ones will remember you skipping their activities… i know it’s hard to make it to everything but choosing a favorite will affect the others.
2026-09-06 21:34:39
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penelope081312 :
If it’s not important, then why put them in anything at all?? If they don’t remember anything at that age, then why bother?
2026-09-06 21:44:29
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Lyra :) :
Agree with everything you’re saying but please (as much as you can) encourage berkley to stay in activities whilst in high school!
2026-09-06 20:42:13
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Okay why am I the only one that agrees?
2026-09-06 22:32:59
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Ari :
Many adults still remember when they were a small child and their parent skipped or missed a competition or game of their sport, one of the reasons for having to choose which competition to be at shouldn’t be which one will remember least
2026-09-06 21:15:22
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lorelei💐🛍️🎧🌅🧁🪞 :
yesss i couldn’t agree more
2026-09-06 20:34:36
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Sarah Catherine :
Can Hadley do something more local? Or gymnastics? Similar skills and she doesn’t need to travel. Personally, traveling out of state for a 7 year old seems a little much when you have 2 other kids in activities.
2026-09-06 20:56:39
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Marge :
Activities are done in high school?
2026-09-06 22:34:58
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Taylor :
I promise they remember
2026-09-06 22:32:40
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. :
This is actually wild. Your younger girls are going to know that you’re favoriting your oldest whether you wanna believe it or not. Even if you try justifying it you’re showing favorites.
2026-09-06 22:18:13
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KAYL :
Well not surprised by the comment section
2026-09-06 22:02:19
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Serena :
I don’t agree unfortunately - that means Berkeley has been prioritized her whole life since you obviously also « picked » her when she was 7 (bc the other were too little to have activities - if that makes sense)
2026-09-06 20:50:26
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kass :
Then take her out girl don’t hurt the team if you ever can’t make it
2026-09-06 21:17:59
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mainacc756 :
Personally, Hadley is too young to be traveling into competition. She should just do local football games, basketball games or things like that.
2026-09-06 20:49:47
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🍓🍓🌞🌞 :
Isn't Berklie going to cheer in high school? I think you should try to make it fair and divide up games/ competitions the best you can, I don't think you should prioritize being at one girls activity over the others. Obviously out of state you'll have to be with Hadley assumingly, but besides that you should make it equal.
2026-09-06 21:31:57
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claire❤️🔥 :
what about when berklie (most likely) does cheer in high school?
2026-09-06 21:00:18
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🤍 𝐼𝑠𝑙𝑎 🤍 :
lottie you're so gorgeous
2026-09-06 20:35:21
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