@thehealingcleric: Sometimes the avoidant tells you exactly who they’re leaving you for—you just don’t realize it at the time. If they keep bringing up the same person’s name over and over, pay attention. What sounds like a random mention may be a clue to where their attention already is. #Avoidant #AvoidantAttachment #BreakupRecovery #RelationshipRedFlags #DatingAdvice