Ask the Avoidant
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Sunday 06 September 2026 21:40:19 GMT
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Elise Vienna :
I feel like my dismissive avoidant is slowly becoming fearful avoidant.
2026-09-08 01:19:05
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Freshman15Davey :
I hate how INCREDIBLY accurate this is. Every. single. point.
2026-09-07 04:16:11
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Tlotliso Ramokate :
when I am in a relationship I fantasize about being single🥺
2026-09-10 09:14:05
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iwannagotofriendlys :
cruelty, is what this is
2026-09-10 21:28:13
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therealgreeneyedfox :
What is it like for an avoidant who is watching their person move on with someone new that they know
2026-09-06 22:03:30
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Dw.in.the.’Sip :
I don’t want to understand them. I want them to have to move into a village together.
2026-09-25 22:44:23
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whoevencaresxo0 :
Is there a positive side to avoidance, for the partner they are with?
2026-09-06 21:44:22
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briganjo79 :
I genuinely believe your page was made for me. It’s scary how accurate this all is.
2026-09-16 17:14:04
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Vi.Fiore.Art :
Why we don’t name positive things being an avoidant instead of only bad things? I am not protecting someone, I am the mediator here. An experience with an avoidant might hurt but those who are ready to settle for something little and had problems with self worth, next part is patience and anger issues- for both sides it would work as a filter just to stop the dynamic and not let it prolong for years. Next is about fantasy- everyone has actually right to get know person better and decide whether wants to stay or leave , and everyone is willing to believe or not into something bigger than receiving. As for communication- if no one talks about it how others would know.
2026-09-07 07:44:28
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Dianne Markus :
My life, I am destroyed
2026-09-07 10:41:01
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A L L E N :
I hope this video reaches her fyp so she can start to realize that shes a dismissive avoidant 🫥
2026-09-06 23:17:39
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Sunny :
Can someone explain to me why my avoidant ex doesn’t seem interested in our son? He doesn’t even text to ask how he’s doing. We’ve been separated for three months now, and this has been going on for a while…
2026-09-07 07:34:28
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mariellencurtice :
Married with an anxious attachment style, trying to find middle ground is difficult when I don't want to be control and he fears about me leaving all the time. is exhausting.
2026-10-01 17:44:25
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jax5x56 :
mine literally initiated the relationship. planned the trips. talked about a future together. then one random tuesday gave me the "I have alot going on in my life right now, I just need some space". then ghosted. left me in pieces. hard to trust anyone now.
2026-09-09 02:38:30
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flashyyfindzz :
I’m glad you’ve grown and overcame your avoidance and are able to bring awareness on the topic! Honestly, no disrespect i notice that you have the same blank avoidant look in your eyes that my avoidant had at the end of our relationship, is there such a thing as avoidant eyes? When i noticed her eyes like that on my birthday i knew i had to end things with her.
2026-09-07 06:25:14
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nononononnonononononno :
Extremely painful honest video made me glad i blocked him 4 months ago n never looking back
2026-09-07 00:21:51
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SJ :
it's cruel
2026-09-08 23:32:25
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CJ Rubalcava :
Is it possible to become a dismissive avoidant after heartbreak? Everything you’ve described is what I’ve started to become.
2026-09-08 15:35:35
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All_on_A :
You just nailed my ex
2026-09-07 02:17:05
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Ben Stearn165🇬🇧 :
Sounder like my ex to a T. Amazing after some time to reflect that you realise all this.
2026-09-07 11:28:57
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kimikah2 :
Why do they romantically pursue at all? Why don’t they just have friendships and stop the romantic pursuits if they keep hurting their partners?
2026-10-29 01:21:11
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kellybelly143 :
the relationship was pretty dang good (2.5 years) we had the same likes, dislikes. we had so much fun together and spent a lot of time together (he's actually my neighbor). we were best friends. the only trouble we had would be me wanting deeper intimacy (wasn't an issue until around year 2). it was a conversation about living together at some point since our kids had just reached adulthood...and we were neighbors yet together all the time. that was it...it was the final day of our relationship, the discard happened so fast it actually became the foundation of a dark night of the soul for me (a spiritual awakening). I'm healed now and in a secure attachment relationship and very happy but man was that a doozy
2026-10-15 05:09:36
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Slgk Roosik :
if a avoident tells u she is done will she come back?
2026-10-11 16:33:04
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eardisss :
Cruel cruel behaviour. 😑
2026-10-26 19:48:13
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