Ask the Avoidant
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Sunday 06 September 2026 21:40:19 GMT
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Nikki :
me she's mad because I was her only friend and she has nobody. like yeah bro I begged you to go out with friends for years. people won't wait around for years of you ignoring them or blowing them off. like??
2026-09-08 11:09:39
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Ms.Samia_Doha :
I knew 2 persons avoidant.. 1 fearful avoidant and 1 dismissive avoidant.. they are both awful.. but dismissive avoidant is on the next level..
2026-09-07 22:45:13
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Elise Vienna :
I feel like my dismissive avoidant is slowly becoming fearful avoidant.
2026-09-08 01:19:05
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Dr. Umer Ghumman :
thank you for creating this video. now how do make her feel safe and she opens up herself to me so that we may lead a peaceful life? please please advise
2026-09-08 01:12:06
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therealgreeneyedfox :
What is it like for an avoidant who is watching their person move on with someone new that they know
2026-09-06 22:03:30
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whoevencaresxo0 :
Is there a positive side to avoidance, for the partner they are with?
2026-09-06 21:44:22
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Jeff Dolman :
I was looking for a pen one evening. her computer screen lit up in the dark. I didnt touch anything but the pen. one the screen was a fb messager convo to herself. I respect privacy. the shock overrod my defenses. I used one finger on her mouse wheel to scroll hundreds of out of context messages. every self messenge was so.ething I said to hurt, correct, disagree or try to be understood. out of context. all had .... at the end. I was wiping down the kitchen. old journal and book stack on the counter. I didn't try to. just picked it up.og after log day after day. event after event in comments on things. only I was mentioned or present in any way. even events focused on myself. modified as needed to not be present.
2026-09-07 23:20:14
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Dianne Markus :
My life, I am destroyed
2026-09-07 10:41:01
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crystal.joly.dean :
Why is it whenever he “ends” things with me he reaches out within a few days even though he tells me not to reach out to him?
2026-09-07 09:40:12
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Keysinka :
Can someone explain to me why my avoidant ex doesn’t seem interested in our son? He doesn’t even text to ask how he’s doing. We’ve been separated for three months now, and this has been going on for a while…
2026-09-07 07:34:28
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nononononnonononononno :
Extremely painful honest video made me glad i blocked him 4 months ago n never looking back
2026-09-07 00:21:51
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Northernlight3397 :
Do u now see that the flaws were not real but self sabotage ? & how did u heal
2026-09-06 23:21:15
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Leelou1021 :
Ok but if they were the closest to you how are you ok if you see them with someone else ief they find someone after being discarded. I’m currently blocked by mind on everything
2026-09-07 01:28:53
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migos :
wow so no matter how much I tried to help her change counselors and church it wasnt even going to help
2026-09-07 03:02:50
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All_on_A :
You just nailed my ex
2026-09-07 02:17:05
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Ben Stearn165🇬🇧 :
Sounder like my ex to a T. Amazing after some time to reflect that you realise all this.
2026-09-07 11:28:57
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A L L E N :
I hope this video reaches her fyp so she can start to realize that shes a dismissive avoidant 🫥
2026-09-06 23:17:39
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whoevencaresxo0 :
If you were to date an avoidant, how would you be a partner to them now? Or is it something youd avoid at all cost?
2026-09-07 12:08:22
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LaMorale :
are you capable of loving someone? after therapy do you become capable of being emotionally available or you just do it coz its the right thing to do?
2026-09-07 04:32:46
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fox :
So painful. Are you sure you just didn’t like the person? That’s how it all feels.
2026-09-07 17:36:05
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Allen Chouinard :
This is so accurate. precisely what she did to me
2026-09-07 19:04:23
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Brisa :
Would a DA stay in a relationship if they didn’t care about the person they’re with and/or are on their way to discarding them if their partner gave them an out of the relationship?
2026-09-07 03:04:10
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ELI • DOWNTOWN PHX BARBER :
Wow!! 🎯
2026-09-07 05:05:39
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