@christopherseiter: The Only Thing That Can Make An Avoidant Go From Ghosting To Obsessed #anxiety #commitment #avoidant #attachmentstyle #avoidantex #dating #breakups #nocontact

Mr_Butternut :

I was avoidant when busy. Now retired and anxious. People can change over time.

user6408273551187 :

No avoidant make their partners into anxious partners from the abuse they cause them

Darline James :

make sense...two avoidants 😳

John Small :

that didn't explaining anything

Martin Vargas 5150 :

why would you want them obsessed with you just for them to ghost you again ?

miythings :

so just ignore them lol. sucks

ChrisFit |🇦🇺 :

can you just be direct. DO THIS EXACT THING.. it doesn't need a university grade description or paper recital. you just waste the whole freaking time to keep saying the x method

IwiTheQueen :

So you suggest that you need to reject all the healthy needs in relationship to make avoidant be obsessed. But then you will be unhappy cause your needs are surpressed and not met. I'm sorry, but it is irrational at all. This is the adaptation of completely unhealthy patterns to manipulate the other person, where both will remain unhappy as a result. The truth is, an avoidant, as a person with an insecure attachment style, should go to therapy and heal their wounds, not others who should spoil their attachment style to fit in with the avoidant. You've done a logical somersault at this point.

Abu :

So I need to sacrifice all my view of "Actual love" and go soul less version of love is the only option to love them ?! begging for a bare minimum?🥀

J :

Anxious here …. Love me an FA

Magiieee :

My hypothesis is that twin flame journey is just to avoidance, but the same attachment issues who also frequently have the same wounds. As I am FA who found her FA

user7051144766628 :

The back ground wall terrifies me! 😳😂

KuyaPangit ♎️ :

I'll break your theory down in 1 sec anxious are kinda inducted into it by growing up into certain family situations. that creates the attraction for the avoidant because we are familiar to it. that's why we are anxious in the first place. family

jknight692 :

@️:@️:@️: @️: "　 　  ️ :

You're now becoming boring with these concepts of yours🙄

Elizabeth :

𝐓𝐇𝐈𝐒 𝐈𝐒 𝐇𝐎𝐖 𝐈 𝐆𝐎𝐓 𝐌𝐘 𝐄𝐗 𝐁𝐀𝐂𝐊 𝐌𝐲 𝐫𝐞𝐥𝐚𝐭𝐢𝐨𝐧𝐬𝐡𝐢𝐩 𝐰𝐚𝐬 𝐫𝐞𝐬𝐭𝐨𝐫𝐞𝐝 𝐚𝐧𝐝 𝐦𝐲 𝐥𝐨𝐯𝐞𝐫 𝐜𝐚𝐦𝐞 𝐛𝐚𝐜𝐤 𝐭𝐨 𝐦𝐞 𝐡𝐞 𝐚𝐩𝐨𝐥𝐨𝐠𝐢𝐳𝐞𝐝 𝐟𝐨𝐫 𝐚𝐥𝐥 𝐭𝐡𝐞 𝐰𝐫𝐨𝐧𝐠𝐬 𝐡𝐞 𝐝𝐢𝐝 𝐚𝐧𝐝 𝐩𝐫𝐨𝐦𝐢𝐬𝐞 𝐧𝐞𝐯𝐞𝐫 𝐭𝐨 𝐝𝐨 𝐢𝐭 𝐚𝐠𝐚𝐢𝐧 , 𝐦𝐲 𝐭𝐨𝐱𝐢𝐜 𝐫𝐞𝐥𝐚𝐭𝐢𝐨𝐧𝐬𝐡𝐢𝐩 𝐰𝐚𝐬 𝐫𝐞𝐬𝐭𝐨𝐫𝐞𝐝 𝐛𝐚𝐜𝐤 𝐭𝐨 𝐧𝐨𝐫𝐦𝐚𝐥 . 𝐓𝐡𝐚𝐧𝐤 𝐲𝐨𝐮 𝐬𝐨 𝐦𝐮𝐜𝐡 𝐟𝐨𝐫 𝐬𝐚𝐯𝐢𝐧𝐠 𝐦𝐲 𝐫𝐞𝐥𝐚𝐭𝐢𝐨𝐧𝐬𝐡𝐢𝐩💃@dr chato