@monicaumunna: Your husband should be able to tell you the truth. Even when the truth is uncomfortable. Even when you don’t agree with him. And if every time he does, he gets interrupted, yelled at, met with tears, defensiveness, or a list of everything he’s done wrong, eventually he may learn that honesty comes with too much conflict. That doesn’t mean you’re responsible for whether your husband tells the truth. And it certainly doesn’t mean you should tolerate disrespect or dishonesty. It means we have to be honest about the environment we create in our marriages. Can your husband tell you something you don’t want to hear without being afraid of what happens next? Because being a safe person doesn’t mean you agree with everything your spouse says. It means they can tell you the truth and you can stay present long enough to actually hear it🙏🏼🔥🫶🏼

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porkchops.applesauce
Conejo :
It’s an ironclad guarantee that no woman wants to know how her husband truly feels.
2026-09-07 04:19:49
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user7743541387862
SK :
If a man is emotionally honest with his wife or girlfriend there's a pretty good chance she'll either use it against him or be turned off by that level of honesty.
2026-09-07 02:38:52
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itsalwayssom3thing
ItsAlwaysSomething :
The “oh yeah well you” gets old real quick.
2026-09-07 08:17:46
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deravatus
deravatus :
"happy wife happy life" came out of "arguing with her is pointless I lose even if Im right"
2026-09-07 18:43:44
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solidblake
SolidBlake :
when I'm honest with my wife she gets angry. then brings up things from the past I've failed at.
2026-09-07 05:01:16
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sloowmomo
sloowmomo :
she gets ammunition to use against me at my lowest
2026-09-07 07:55:46
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osiyotatanka
GenXSurvivor :
Every wife does that. It is emotional manipulation.
2026-09-07 13:54:11
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cblegkqgsnu
chris :
It’s never safe for a husband to be honest. It’s almost always turned around used against him.
2026-09-07 12:32:20
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biggerhearted
Ron Schneebaum, MD :
You don’t have a marriage problem. You’re married to the wrong person.
2026-09-08 15:22:20
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jcarlosfts
CarlosFts 🇲🇽🇦🇺 :
well, this made me realize I probably haven't really been heard when I raised concerns to my gf. She tends to react very emotionally and I end up having to console her...
2026-09-07 02:08:07
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lethalstinky
BigMeanMan :
Holy crap this comment section is insanely unhealthy in their relationships. My wife is my BEST friend on this earth and I tell her everything, my highest high and my lowest lows. She celebrates with me at the highs and supports me at my lows. I genuinely cannot comprehend a world where I couldn’t openly communicate my feelings with her.
2026-09-07 11:46:59
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rayvnsn91
Ray Vinson :
The last time I was emotionally honest with a partner she used everything against me in arguments and always made it about her instead. So never again 🙄🤷
2026-09-07 14:37:36
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thatingemar2
thatingemar :
Meh my wife knows. I don't have to tell her. She knows. I know she knows. I know she knows I know.
2026-09-08 02:25:01
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ayyyooo777
Aaron :
That’s not a marriage problem, that’s a partner problem.
2026-09-08 12:47:16
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stienkehood
Matt :
Never felt this in a relationship
2026-09-07 13:57:00
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crazyllama98
crazyllama :
If he can't be honest with you, it's probably because his feelings are ridiculous and he knows it.
2026-09-07 14:49:50
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crazyspartan35
crazyspartan35 :
if it makes you feel any better, it's not *just* your fault. The woman that starts conditioning a boy that his feelings don't matter is his mother.
2026-09-07 14:39:07
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paytsoka
Precious Tsoka ✝️💒💊💹 :
hard truths
2026-09-07 09:42:55
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you_heard_me7
you_heard_me :
no women on the comments?
2026-09-07 06:13:57
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pixxxiiee
Pixxxiiee :
Ummm most men are not honest in their relationship or marriages because they fear consequences to their own actions. Next!!!
2026-09-07 12:47:51
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bman6187
bman :
never tell the truth to your wife. she will never let you forget it.
2026-09-07 20:16:44
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daldet0620
Daldet :
Can I be honest with and uncomfortable are two different things though? Sometimes I’m uncomfortable because of the way I was raised because I would get smacked around for being honest that’s not my wife’s fault.
2026-09-07 19:02:52
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wrekte
Wrekt :
The real question is whether or not you’re going to use what he says against him at some point later on.
2026-09-07 04:05:18
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chvarak69
LatentRoll :
If I share my feelings, she goes into a mode where everything is now worse and I have to console her because of how I feel. NVM. I'm fine.
2026-09-08 04:53:02
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gcarver14
just another old guy :
women said they want men to talk about their feelings.... until men start talking about their feelings. And then we inevitably end up apologizing for how our feelings made her feel. The fatigue is so real
2026-09-07 13:58:54
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