Mary Jane 🇬🇧 :
I grew up in the perfect storm. covert narcissistic mother, violent alcoholic father (driven by my mothers abuse of him), my mother smoked weed frequently while pregnant with me, I was born prematurely because of placenta failure, starved of oxygen during birth, rushed to the NICU (lacked golden hour and skin to skin contact for the first few weeks), had a severe head injury at 3yo that damaged my prefrontal cortex, had a narcissist bully for an older sister, moved schools constantly, parents separated when I was 14, was then parentified and left to frequently look after 2-4 small children overnight, and be exposed to alcoholism from both my parents and step father, my own father was also taking drugs frequently openly, I was sexually abused by my elder step brother and violently abused by my step father. I didn't stand a chance from conception.
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