@karinareyl: l've been letting them figure it out even if it's easier for me to do so they can be more independent even when they don't want to. #eldestdaughter #eldestdaughterproblems #family #latinosbelike #latinos

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_littlelavagirl
ednie :
As the oldest in a Hispanic household I get it but if I speak up I’m seen as the horrible daughter and ungrateful
2026-09-07 20:33:51
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peets_17
Peets_17🌱 :
They don’t even try which makes it worse
2026-09-07 17:35:25
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alnvgl
alnvgl :
Then you tell them something and they ask why you’re mad 😭😔
2026-09-07 17:22:14
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enosilva56
Leno Silva :
You cant. they dont see an issue with that behavior cause we have always done it. as children we saw that they needed help and as we grew so did our responsibility. from communicating in public, phone calls appointments etc. after a lifetime of us doing that for them they dont see whats wrong with it. and when you set a boundary you get hit with. antes eras un buen hijo.
2026-09-08 01:21:23
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ladyzerr
Adilene❤️ :
Genuinely thought you were a nun for a sec.
2026-09-07 22:44:54
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m_davila88
MABEL | SAHM 🇲🇽 🇺🇸 :
Silent
2026-09-07 18:29:17
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gwen92894
77 :
I’m the youngest sibling and they ALL rely on me sm like I don’t have other siblings 🫩🫩
2026-09-08 03:08:28
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jolene0014
jolene0014 :
But you also have to be okay with them making decisions without you, and not get mad or judgmental about how they chose to handle it.💯
2026-09-07 18:13:04
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immortal.surfer
⛧ᵐᵉᵉˢʰ⛧ :
just act like you don't know.
2026-09-07 20:33:40
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joanna_txoxo
Jo 💛 :
Im just here wondering how they survived before us, because its ridiculous!!
2026-09-07 20:40:27
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elsymarroquin17
Elsa Guevara :
Karina i understand what happens if you stop helping them I know you do it bc your dad too 🥹
2026-09-07 17:15:04
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ladyisold
user6193978040070 :
you are wearing a white headband, I was thinking it was the headpiece nuns wear 😂
2026-09-08 01:54:29
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mayanchik7
CyndeeD :
If you haven’t already, move away, don’t live so close to them if you can. It’ll be less burden on you and give them space to figure things out instead of relying on you
2026-09-07 19:17:55
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lilacmoonlight98
🍒lyssa :
like if I had to figure it out on my own why cant you???? everyone depends on me but who can I depend on when I'm struggling?? nobody. I have no backup. No help. I just have to figure it out for everyone. I literally didn't have a vehicle after my dad passed and was still in high school, took the bus home and had to call a Uber to work everyday after school and they would call me while im in class saying the power is off can I pay it when I get a second!!
2026-09-07 18:03:58
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collapse_of_america
collapse_of_america :
“Can you help me fill out this job application?” Like, really? Be for real. You don’t know your date of birth and previous employer? 😒
2026-09-08 01:42:05
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christ.iiane
Christiane 💕 :
Silent repost 😭
2026-09-08 07:13:44
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yamileth.x
Yas ♋︎ :
Yeah… sometimes it’s too much. I’ll still help them out, but it can get annoying.
2026-09-07 16:37:48
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___sunchuco
___Sun0915 :
keep saying "No se" I don't know😂
2026-09-08 06:14:21
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ffsfatou
F🤎 :
Girllllll… I legit want to screammm
2026-09-08 01:07:55
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rrosalinda21
rrosalinda21 :
It literally your content!!
2026-09-07 19:40:13
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tina.belcher11
🌽 :
This but my coworkers. It’s truly infuriating
2026-09-07 22:57:59
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fromageestmavie
Fromage :
Thiiiiisssss! Eldest daughter core for sure.
2026-09-07 19:19:21
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naria.anaya
Naria Anaya :
Boundaries my dear.
2026-09-07 21:19:46
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user_281.330.8004
🫵🏽🫵🏽🫵🏽 :
Yeah but then you do it so they’ll never learn to do it on their own
2026-09-07 16:53:11
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ckkkkk89
ckkkkk :
I tried talking to a therapist and she just said wow, everyone around you is incompetent. I was like yeah, tell me something I don't know
2026-09-08 04:08:53
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