@karinareyl: l've been letting them figure it out even if it's easier for me to do so they can be more independent even when they don't want to. #eldestdaughter #eldestdaughterproblems #family #latinosbelike #latinos
As the oldest in a Hispanic household I get it but if I speak up I’m seen as the horrible daughter and ungrateful
2026-09-07 20:33:51
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Peets_17🌱 :
They don’t even try which makes it worse
2026-09-07 17:35:25
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alnvgl :
Then you tell them something and they ask why you’re mad 😭😔
2026-09-07 17:22:14
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Leno Silva :
You cant. they dont see an issue with that behavior cause we have always done it. as children we saw that they needed help and as we grew so did our responsibility. from communicating in public, phone calls appointments etc. after a lifetime of us doing that for them they dont see whats wrong with it. and when you set a boundary you get hit with. antes eras un buen hijo.
2026-09-08 01:21:23
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Adilene❤️ :
Genuinely thought you were a nun for a sec.
2026-09-07 22:44:54
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MABEL | SAHM 🇲🇽 🇺🇸 :
Silent
2026-09-07 18:29:17
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77 :
I’m the youngest sibling and they ALL rely on me sm like I don’t have other siblings
2026-09-08 03:08:28
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jolene0014 :
But you also have to be okay with them making decisions without you, and not get mad or judgmental about how they chose to handle it.💯
2026-09-07 18:13:04
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⛧ᵐᵉᵉˢʰ⛧ :
just act like you don't know.
2026-09-07 20:33:40
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Jo 💛 :
Im just here wondering how they survived before us, because its ridiculous!!
2026-09-07 20:40:27
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Elsa Guevara :
Karina i understand what happens if you stop helping them I know you do it bc your dad too 🥹
2026-09-07 17:15:04
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user6193978040070 :
you are wearing a white headband, I was thinking it was the headpiece nuns wear 😂
2026-09-08 01:54:29
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CyndeeD :
If you haven’t already, move away, don’t live so close to them if you can. It’ll be less burden on you and give them space to figure things out instead of relying on you
2026-09-07 19:17:55
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🍒lyssa :
like if I had to figure it out on my own why cant you???? everyone depends on me but who can I depend on when I'm struggling?? nobody. I have no backup. No help. I just have to figure it out for everyone. I literally didn't have a vehicle after my dad passed and was still in high school, took the bus home and had to call a Uber to work everyday after school and they would call me while im in class saying the power is off can I pay it when I get a second!!
2026-09-07 18:03:58
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collapse_of_america :
“Can you help me fill out this job application?” Like, really? Be for real. You don’t know your date of birth and previous employer? 😒
2026-09-08 01:42:05
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Christiane 💕 :
Silent repost 😭
2026-09-08 07:13:44
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Yas ♋︎ :
Yeah… sometimes it’s too much. I’ll still help them out, but it can get annoying.
2026-09-07 16:37:48
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___Sun0915 :
keep saying "No se" I don't know😂
2026-09-08 06:14:21
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F🤎 :
Girllllll… I legit want to screammm
2026-09-08 01:07:55
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rrosalinda21 :
It literally your content!!
2026-09-07 19:40:13
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🌽 :
This but my coworkers. It’s truly infuriating
2026-09-07 22:57:59
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Fromage :
Thiiiiisssss! Eldest daughter core for sure.
2026-09-07 19:19:21
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Naria Anaya :
Boundaries my dear.
2026-09-07 21:19:46
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🫵🏽🫵🏽🫵🏽 :
Yeah but then you do it so they’ll never learn to do it on their own
2026-09-07 16:53:11
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ckkkkk :
I tried talking to a therapist and she just said wow, everyone around you is incompetent. I was like yeah, tell me something I don't know
2026-09-08 04:08:53
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