@couldbemiely: brain dump and my first meal of the day at 10pm

Miro :

Unforgiveness can be a healthy, self-respecting boundary rather than a sign of bitterness.

k_upofkat :

and no matter how we much we wish for them to be hurt as much as we did just so they understand how it made us feel, we knew that we don't want that for them either:))

ah eh :

limiting people's access to you doesn't automatically make them give you less hate. If you reciprocated what they've shown you, it makes it harder for them to treat you bad. (based on experience and I actually hate that I think like this)

miffyyy 𑄝੭ :

"if you don't let people experience the consequences of their actions towards you, you will remain a safe place for their worst behavior" ❤️‍🩹

. :

Limiting someone’s access to you after they’ve hurt you isn’t hatred, and it isn’t revenge. You don’t have to return the same energy just bc someone gave it to you. Self-respect can simply mean knowing when to step back and set a boundary.

gwynerica :

preach!!! 🙌🏼

irish ⋆౨ৎ˚ :

PREACHHHHH

strawbruhri :

nasa ig ba to? sarap istory 😭

Ns :

True!

mori :

erika :

carms :

exactly!

𝓚 :

yes

mariezz :

yessss!

kye as in kai :

yes

au :

couldn't agree more

anna :

Ney :

I kept giving you the benefit of the doubt, turns out I’m wrong.

cece :

❤️

zyrene 🧸🍰🥨 :

❤️‍🩹