Moonlightblue357 :
True what you say, be patient, even though it is tough, they mind are growing and learning , watching how family are and others. everyone is different, Angry, quite, violence. there is reason behind there pain, you need to know why, by sitting down and speak. ask them are you ok, is there a problem you can speak to me as I am your parent to help with your ups and downs, what ever it is, they need your care and tension, does not matter what age they are, everyone goes through pain. but if you notice something different then you know they have problems but they want come up to you,as they don't want to worry you.
As a parents you need to support your child only by doing is Listening to them, what they have to say, but you don't talk until they are finished what they need to say.
when it is your turn to speak, speak nicely not angry or upset, speak that you are concerned and you do your best to help them what ever the issue is. be best parent's for being there for them when needed. watch there body language, there behaviour that is how you know they have problems. you say I love you and I am worried about you, you can always come to me for what ever the issue you have, we both work out the problem to resolve the matter what ever it is. let them know you love them and respect there words and privacy, if needed.
2026-09-07 17:02:38