@lukeseniorofficial: When he blames you for everything, it isn’t because you’re the problem. It’s because blaming you is the anaesthetic. A man who hasn’t dealt with his own stuff can’t take accountability. As long as everything is your fault, he never has to feel bad about not being a better man. And he knows. He just can’t afford to say it out loud, because then he’d have to change. I said what I said. #relationshiptalk #relationshipquotes #situationship #datingover40 #ukdating