the fact that that's exactly why I'm mad right now😭😭
2026-09-08 03:48:20
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N. :
Im not mad i just dont have the energy to deal with them so i just remove them thus removing the problem
2026-09-08 13:27:22
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Mysterious GG :
I’m in perimenopause. Not happening!
2026-09-08 02:43:01
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lavalamp_96 :
This is accurate HOWEVER, I also detach and remove myself from situations if those people are displaying toxic behaviors that remain unchanged
2026-09-08 09:44:36
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Lori Nelson :
💯. I will be aligned with people who are meant for me. We're all on a different path.🥰
2026-09-10 03:36:04
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Don B. :
What if I’m not mad I just don’t accept it
2026-09-08 12:34:10
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Tania Mejia :
No thanks. I hold people & myself to high standards. 😁
2026-09-10 03:15:17
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NicoleJoy1111 :
not totally there. ive accepted my mom isn't the mom i needed nor is she capable of understanding anything emotional i explain to her(tried) but the loss od that relationship makes me sad.
2026-09-08 00:20:34
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Samarie Lucca :
In other words: Stop volunteering yourself to be a victim of other's behaviors. People will never treat you as you are, but as they are.
2026-09-08 19:35:12
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JenJen :
It’s difficult when you’re the type of person that tries so hard to be everything everyone else needs.
2026-09-09 04:58:17
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Poker :
How do you do it? Do a video on that
2026-09-08 00:52:36
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MagBaxnZmom :
It’s easier said than done, unfortunately! 🥺
2026-09-10 02:02:46
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itssjaques :
The timing is perfect
2026-09-10 02:55:59
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Boof :
I needed this
2026-09-09 12:02:35
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Angelic :
I JUST EXPECT THEM TO HAVE COMMON SENSE LIKE WHYS THAT SO HARD
2026-09-09 17:06:36
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ceeecee :
It’s hurts so bad , when you bent over backwards for them !!!😢
2026-09-08 03:18:59
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not lisa :
Be that person for yourself
2026-09-07 17:33:23
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ivo :
I’m pissed that I invested for so long, I’m pissed that they didn’t put in the effort or care the way I thought or projected onto them that they did.
2026-09-07 21:40:22
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That guy in LIC NYC. :
I struggle with this. People are always telling me I shouldn’t have expectations of other people. I disagree. If we don’t have expectations of each other what is the point? How are we connected? I expect my friends are going to treat me with respect, as I treat them with the respect the expect from me.
2026-09-08 03:45:54
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Slim :
I meet ppl where they are. Now I don’t get disappointed
2026-09-08 09:26:35
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Itsjustme :
As the Dali Lama says, do not let the behavior of others destroy your inner peace.
2026-09-08 09:03:05
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malickbdiallo :
But this doesn't mean you need to tolerate them as they are. People do not need to stay in your life!
2026-09-08 17:30:53
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user2419993798288 :
Does this include Donald trump??
2026-09-08 02:14:27
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Lorna :
Andddd nope! This is why nowadays relationships are mediocre bc people are trying to guilt trip others for having expectations which is NORMAL in every relationship. For example, if you’re mad at a friend for not being here for you, it is not asking him/her to be somebody else but just to act like a normal friend. So just set boundaries and move on
2026-09-09 10:32:39
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