@unpunishablewoman: Single women do not have to prove that we are desirable before our choice to remain single is considered valid. Psychological adulthood means making decisions that align with your values without rationalizing, defending or explaining your life to people who have no authority over it.

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Men don’t realize how easy they are. If we want man they are not hard to come by

amora :

i fear they try and harvest your energy by constantly questioning and provoking you

Aaliyah | Multi-faceted :

So if men ask you why are you not married how would you answer? Cause I swear I get asked that to harvest my energy or piss me off with my consent😣

WALKREALM Studios :

“You’re gonna be old with cats.” I always get confused because what’s wrong with that? At least I will grow old and will not risk my life by being with a man.

Cutegirllizzy :

I am not asking them about their married life

Ohnochididnt :

Can I add that as a single woman ppl are LOOKING to misunderstand you anyway so don’t even bother

lifeaccordingtokeeks :

It is such a low brow conversation. And that’s definitely the route I’m going on now. Because in the end, why would I defend my choices to a man?

victoriadickens82 :

I s/w a 90 yo female patient that has been a pathologist since 1961..she said the 1st question she was asked to enter her residency was did she have children..and she met a lot of rejection her husband was never asked the same and he’s a dr too.. made me wanna cry

coco :

certain men online try to place you in a state of fear and complacency because if you realize there are men who have values out there no one will date them themselves. Its why it triggers them so much that women have autonomy, just ignore them they're only pushing bullshit narratives and insecure🤷‍♀️

repgirlie4evr🧡🍂🤎🍁 :

I feel that I have to explain myself BUT wish I didn’t. I feel so separated from others because of my singleness. Because I have never been married, I feel that people (men & women) think that there is something wrong with me. I would love to have a healthy life partner but I am very doubtful that I can ever find one because of my age. I have only had highly toxic situationships in

coral venus 𓁹 𓁹 :

well I can't find a man who wants and likes me. A man to dig up inside me? Yes. but who actually likes me and treats me with respect... ain't found him yet.

Fairydust :

I tell them how much more fun it is to be single in this day in age. 😉

Amira Harris :

I like when men ask me a question because it gives me the opportunity to stare at them blankly for however, long😂

runONthoughtspodcast :

Same. I have been asked to debate and I don't understand standing on the chopping block to explain my choices.

🩶 :

no longer debating my family about my 4B choice 🫡

Gingerbread63 :

Smart and beautiful young woman!!

Kimberly Foster :

They're scared.

Saint Lucy :

PeriodT!

leeeeeeeeeee711 :

Yes! ✅✅

JuJu Afrogoddess🇰🇪🇰🇪 :

Exactly 🗣️🗣️🗣️🗣️

gabriele 🫶 :

Of course it's the typical male question of why can't you find/keep a man 🤦 well it's my life and my choice 💯

Girl girl :

broke_back_bitch :

This is the most attractive mentality I have ever found. “I don’t comment on those things because they’re beneath me”. YES! Thank you for putting the language and thoughts out there!

star_lite_7 :

You're so cool. 🩷🙂

🤍✨yuenana :

Word!