@bryanreevesinsight: Contempt doesn't just fade. It settles in and stays. Most of us learned to tolerate it somewhere along the way...in childhood, watching our parents, absorbing it so quietly we didn't even realize it was happening. What or who taught you to tolerate contempt? Comment "COMMUNITY" to join my free online relationship-skills community "Love with Integrity" where my wife Silvy and I help men and women learn how to fully choose each other every day.
I am trained in their method. As someone who's been married for 20 years, I can say the four horsemen are not allowed anywhere near my marriage.
2026-09-07 18:37:25
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rouxmagoo :
Contempt is created by unresolved resentment. If partner A communicates to partner B that they need more help, more rest, more connection and partner B is dismissive and never meets that need then resentment and thereby contempt will grow. Who created this problem? The one with contempt or the one who dismissed their needs?
2026-09-08 01:35:25
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