It was literally infinitely easier not dealing with abuse. The divorce process was difficult but I used “grey rocking” method to get him to eventually get bored of me and leave me alone.
2026-09-14 14:19:39
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Bubblegum Raindrop ♡ :
Excellent points! Being a single mother is so much easier than being a neglected wife.
2026-09-07 17:56:49
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Snowchild :
My ex-husband had secret phones, hiring escorts and whole relationships with multiple women for years and years until I had enough. 4 years after leaving him, I have an amazing boyfriend and step dad to my kids. Marriages should be more happy than they are conflicted 🩷
2026-09-09 16:07:13
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Maria :
Always try to save your marriage, but live in reality if your partner says they are done. The biggest thing during divorce is not giving up if you’re in a high conflict situation. I almost gave up so many times but so glad I didn’t. There is light in the other side for sure but it is also an extremely hard life at times. Everything is on your back so lean on God
2026-09-09 11:32:53
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Dena🩵 :
I love this! This was me 4 years ago. It was terrifying to leave but also terrifying to stay. It’s like I had to give myself permission to walk away. My divorce finalized this year. The hardest season I walked through showed me how strong I truly was. It does get easier. One day at a time. ❤️🩹
2026-09-09 05:43:17
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Anniee<3 :
I thought you were gonna try and change my mind thank you for the encouraging words 🩷
2026-09-07 17:56:24
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Jaydot :
I’m dating a divorced dad of two who is so great but it’s hard feeling like I’m coming after his ex wife and first family. I’ve never been married and don’t have kids. Any advice? ❤️
2026-09-08 00:59:30
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quaritchgooner :
Wise words
2026-09-07 18:03:25
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369outside :
Carlyn I finally left my husband a month ago. You’re so right about all of this! It’s easier. Thanks for the knowledge you have shared that helped me leave
2026-09-09 20:22:23
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