@dariusryankadem: Here’s the single mistake parents make when two kids start fighting. To immediately make it stop or make it fair. We treat it as one shared problem. Who gets what? Who’s in the wrong? How do I make this stop? But the problem is one child’s distress stays unresolved and is likely to come back. But in this conflict, I treated each child as having their own problem inside the same situation. Theo needed redirection, while Freya needed co-regulation that helped uncover and meet what she actually needed. I’m running a free live workshop this week on how to read what each child actually needs during conflict, and know how to respond. Go to my link in bio to join my community for a 7 day free trial and register for the workshop. So the mistake is naming the visible dispute as the problem: toy, sharing, provoking. The real work is identifying what each child is trying to get, protect, avoid or restore.

Oli 🦖 :

i love your content dude but please stop putting your childrens faces on the internet

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Is this the gentle parenting I keep hearing about?

dragonesis :

or the people will be stupid and record it for clout

reins. :

ok, so i need a girl to have kids with, anyone interested?

aidontcare :

I don't think I could ever be a parent, I don't have the patience to be this calm and emotionally intelligent 24/7 for 18+ years. I don't even fully take care of my own needs much less a child's, imagine having to do this after a long day of work with a severe headache.

tbone17 :

Is this like the parenting equivalent of doing scales on an instrument / solving excercizes in math? I kind of want to see you 'juggle' five kids emotions on stage now, you would sell out stadiums haha

Obi wan kenobi :

where is the mother in your videos if you don't mind me asking?

Jerry :

kids fight from learned behaviour

Cheri Shanks :

Thank you. I like your videos. Great work explaining different ways for parents to do things to help their children. [Cool]

Topo Yiyo :

conflict

Naartie :

This is horrible parenting... No offence...,... Teach your to think or problem solve for themselves... Start by teaching them how to be self aware...

electric boii :

that's parenting premium

Анђелина :

you need to write a book about parenting

𖣂ׁ MVXGXTCX ; 🐘 :

I love your Content 🫶🏻 I'm in the process of completing the educator training. It really helps me a lot to develop understanding (with reference to practice) with your videos.

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I love you

muzvisions :

I wish more people actually cared to learn child psychology before having kids

Kristian Olsen :

The search bar…….

BrainFreeze 愛🫩🕋🇽🇰 :

CONFLICT

Fargie :

Arthur :

Unrelated by your children have beautiful names❤️

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why your kids names are God of wars names 😭✌️

Nilsa :

i still didn't understand

Noa Snir :

theo?