Shaina Richardson | Hypnotist
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Monday 07 September 2026 18:01:14 GMT
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Adrienne :
He initiated all 5 dates in under a month, but goes kinda dark between dates. Rarely texts, but is engaging when I initiate a text. Then goes dark again until he reaches out to make plans. Do I just need to relax?
2026-09-07 22:37:21
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afrofaerie_art :
This is pretty much exactly what my current dynamic started like. I’m so used to being lovebombed, it’s actually been so refreshing to feel us get closer and bond in a more natural way
2026-09-07 21:05:18
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esther :
This is my first time dating a guy with secure attachment and even though I am anxious I have come to feel secure because he makes plans, is intentional, and let’s both of us have gaps between our messages and actively talking about our work and neither of us changing our busy lives to make another date. I didn’t want a false sense of intimacy from the get go, and his secure attachment has made me yearn for him even more and let me feel very safe when he doesn’t respond right away
2026-09-08 01:41:10
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a.BelleVie :
Thank you for allowing me to see this in a different, yet positive perspective . One must be patient
2026-09-09 19:57:05
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K.Rae :
going through this right now, it is so hard not to spiral and think the worst.
2026-09-08 10:07:50
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XoxoGG :
I’ve been going fucking crazy
2026-09-09 09:37:24
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theregulationcoach :
Oooh felt this
2026-09-13 19:57:28
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Kat 😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊 :
the first date was September 1. he wanted to push out second date in 2 weeks because this weekend that just passed was jam packed with plans with buddies. is this ok or no
2026-09-07 21:49:26
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brandon the loner :
As a previous Dismissive-Avoidant who worked to be secure now, this is accurate! I definitely am a romantic man but I pace dates and intimacy to really get to know someone.
2026-09-07 20:54:40
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WhitRed :
No you should communicate what you need in a relationship. What’s “normal and acceptable ” for one may not be okay for others. Been here. My bestie loves this I on the other hand will get bored and forget about you.
2026-09-10 03:13:23
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flowers348 :
Dating is not for the weak… it’s tough…
2026-09-08 12:31:19
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La Flaca D :
So 4 days of no texting what is that 😂
2026-09-09 03:22:00
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sevenfrogs :
But there has to still be momentum
2026-09-08 02:36:49
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Natsumatsu✨ :
So...if i know that logically, but my nervous system does not... how do i fix that, because i'm stressed 👀
2026-09-09 20:19:20
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amessageafterdark :
I needed to hear this
2026-09-09 02:00:56
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Sun Ray ☀️🌻 :
I like the comment section here 😂💕
2026-09-07 22:48:49
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getmeahandle :
I had this slow once a week start, friendship first, for a year all for him to be an actual avoidant after 3 months of finally dating.
2026-09-08 01:18:56
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Summer🫀 :
But then I feel like a pen pal cause I haven’t seen him in 3 weeks but he calls me every night before bedtime 😩😩😩😩😩😩😩😩😩😩😩😩😩😩😩😩 do I just relax? (He’s always busy)
2026-09-08 16:11:15
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uche_Nna :
What happen if it’s long distance ?
2026-09-07 23:17:11
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XO~CAT :
Is it unreasonable to still be talking/dating other guys during this process?
2026-09-07 21:52:44
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Annelisejoy :
This is great advice!! Love it 😍
2026-09-07 18:38:17
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