@klamsadtofab: Cheater, cheater, pumpkin eater? Nah, just someone who got brave enough to ask for help. Breaking cycles isn’t cheating, it’s healing. If you’re scared people will call you a cheater, know that says everything about them, not you. Most people don’t even go there. People who do are usually wrestling with their own stuff. Asking for help is not cheating. It’s courage.