"mature relationships repeatedly survive the death of the old arrangement"
2026-09-08 08:51:42
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tiktoktiktoktiktok411 :
Sounds like a parent-child relationship, whose elements we replicate through romantic relationships
2026-09-07 20:27:18
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We Are Biljka :
oof this one 🤌🤌🤌 fun fact: this is also why some ppl prefer not to get married but rather make the choice to stay anew every single day
2026-09-07 20:35:31
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noemi :
if you are needed rather than wanted, it’s not about love
2026-09-08 14:20:09
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joelfo :
So true, love is a constant daily choice.
2026-09-08 00:10:28
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RENN OLYMPUS :
the best relationship is truly a choice cuz you don’t NEED it you want it
2026-09-07 23:37:28
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ramona.coded :
ASHHHHH! 😭
2026-09-08 03:04:21
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Kidding :
Yes. And they’ll eventually want to leave with the next person too. Rinse and repeat. And maybe they’ll one day see that the person they left loved them so much, they pushed them to grow, and they were loyal. But maybe not. Because it doesn’t matter. If you are the kind of love who helps those you love question and grow, you deserve the same. And you deserve someone who stays and chooses you.
2026-09-08 01:24:57
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Naomi🌹Rose :
That’s why detachment is a positive thing, love is not possessive
2026-09-08 04:36:50
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Erika Maria :
God you’re good. Love your takes.
2026-09-07 21:35:58
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Polo :
I wish people who don't understand this could hear what you're saying.
2026-09-08 16:53:34
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ashleybutterwrth :
nah most people will miss this but you're a genius
2026-09-08 04:16:37
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B U N 🚫 〽️ :
So much but in such little time, but I sit and hear it all, so beautifully said, thank you for sharing this priceless knowledge with all of us
2026-09-08 06:55:24
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jo_ssie :
Whoa! the audacity to think someone owes me just because I helped them see a part of them they were blind to.
2026-09-08 04:53:17
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Meek :
That’s why some people want the person next to them feel small. Feeding off them. This is not love. Love is not possession. Love is freedom.
2026-09-08 07:09:45
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Thesea@333 :
We are all just stewards of whatever is in our orbit at any given time. We own nothing but own minds
2026-09-15 05:03:27
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sabrinaparker3 :
I don’t have a prenup tho so.
2026-09-08 18:22:15
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st.trly :
The heart is deceitful above all things, who can trust it? Like dogs return to their vomit, a fool returns to their folly. And pride goes before destruction. There is a way that seems right to people but the end thereof is death. He that seeks isolation seeks his own.
2026-09-08 22:39:33
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˚₊‧꒰ა 𓂋 ໒꒱ ‧₊˚ :
charge it to the game <3
2026-09-08 00:18:31
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a black cat 🐈⬛ :
Relationships are so complex
2026-09-18 10:20:53
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💙🫧Miss~Hermner 🎀🫧 :
I have my reasons why I chose to become a lazy girlfriend 😭😂never again 💯
2026-09-09 10:15:23
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Polina :
I’ve known that for a while, but problem is, unless I know for sure he’s okay, I can’t just distance myself and not help when I know he’s having a hard time. I can literally feel it from far away. It freaks me out. I’ve never had this happen before 😳
2026-09-16 19:40:52
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𝔞𝔮𝔲𝔞.𝔰𝔱𝔢𝔩𝔩𝔦 :
Your videos silence the demons in my mind
2026-09-10 02:06:57
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Amanda Joiner :
That sounds very machevillion
2026-09-10 19:22:18
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