@troykoerntjes: The 3 stages of healing after narcissistic abuse Where are you? If you need help navigating the healing journey after narcissistic abuse, i offer counselling, coaching and in October we will be running a half day retreat. for more information please send us a DM or use this link below https://www.completehealthgeelong.com.au/about-us #narcissist #narcissism #narctok #narcissistic
ive tried to heal after being with one why is it that when you finaly get over them and you find someone else they pop up in ya life
2026-09-08 04:29:22
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Ms Oz :
No it was on me for treating them so good making him coffee before he got out of bed waited on him hand &;foot cooked dinner every night, made lunch everyday for work. He had it so good & because I was a pacifist.I did whatever it took to avoid arguments.
But while I was doing that.He was realising I say jump she will jump higher. Got to the point walking on egg shells & blamed myself. Agreeing it was my fault.He would appologize for hitting me & in return I would apologise for little things like dinner not being on time or it had gone cold because he had been occupied talking to a mate he phoned when I said dinner be ready in 5 minutes.
Never ever again will i allow a person to control my life.
Hit me once shame on you hit me twice shame on me.
2026-09-08 01:51:59
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Kerryanne Ronan :
Thank you, I’m level 3 but it has taking me very long time.
2026-09-08 00:26:46
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angelscalling1111 :
I would love this thankyou
2026-09-08 00:00:20
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Queen Biatch 77 Australia 🦘 :
im going through that right now
2026-09-08 07:34:30
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@Melanie :
We all have a contract on this Earth 🌹.. We choose our learnings & challenges to learn to rise & to never repeat.. There is no blame only learning
2026-09-10 12:32:51
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christina marie :
yes please im in my last phase
2026-09-08 22:07:41
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Kev :
I went through all 3 stages exactly like that, the last one for me is forgiving them, not forgetting or trusting them, but forgiveness is when you have truly let go and build your own life again.
2026-09-09 11:34:53
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Audrey Heartz :
that word lolol.....me too
2026-09-08 03:24:23
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sezza111 :
I think im in the middle of 2 n 3.
2026-09-08 05:27:17
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chugga single 39 :
trying to heal but dunno if i cant
2026-09-09 09:17:25
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lisa :
I’m on level 3 very difficult when you live with them own a house together etc
2026-09-08 19:47:31
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Bookkeeper :
I'm 55 and there is nothing better than peace and happiness within yourself. People can't always give you those
2026-09-08 20:11:53
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Jody :
im in last stage ive taken accountability for the dance between me and and the nar🙏
2026-09-08 05:16:17
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gavin187777 :
👌👌👌
2026-09-08 13:17:50
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