@invinciblevenus_: When should I tell a man that I have a hard situation in my life atm or that I had one ? Here is some advice . Takeout with a grain of salt, it may not appl to you directly. #datingadvice
As a chronic oversharer who clearly has NO shame, I always tell them absolutely everything straight away. But I have learnt that (if I ever do date again) i will be telling them nothing of this nature EVER.
2026-09-07 21:20:46
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mecha.miku :
i only freely and transparently disclose CURRENT problems/situations. if it's not affecting me in the present, it doesn't hold the same power over me anymore & i shouldn't cloak myself in old narratives
2026-09-08 07:41:53
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A :
I wish I had had your videos in my formative years. You are wise beyond words
2026-09-08 14:50:29
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Lara Delaney :
I did 5 dates in and that was our last date :(
2026-09-08 15:15:35
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funkyfartbox :
Dang I gotta tell them I got a big nose?????? 😭😭 why do you mention that so much? Low-key catching strays lmaooo
2026-09-08 03:51:49
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estelle :
i would like to know your take on if having a boundary against dating men who watch prn is realistic and worth keeping when you want to have a partner
2026-09-07 22:09:37
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rebekah <3 :
Hey Isabel! I recently have been through a break up after 4 years. I just found out that he is already talking to another girl after one week. I was fine, even happily peaceful before this new information. It makes me feel like I never existed. How do I just get it out of my head? I know I don’t want him and he isn’t good for me, but I am so hurt by the reality of him doing it.
2026-09-07 20:58:10
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lily wobbe :
My sister died on Valentines Day, not looking forward to disclosing that one to a future partner lol 😭
2026-09-08 02:04:13
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Camden :
I think it’s important to disclose illness on the first date or even before the date because a lot of people won’t be down for it and why waste your time with them. You don’t have to get into it but mention it. Trauma is a little different because it can be harder to disclose and not everyone deserves your story
2026-09-08 07:00:10
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Adam :
A good man can cope day one.
2026-09-08 02:29:49
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Laila :
i have told everyone i’ve talked to almost immediately, because i’m scared of “luring them in” with a false personality or hurting them 😅
2026-09-08 01:58:34
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sav :) :
You only need to find 1 person who loves every aspect of you. Who you repel is just as important as who you attract. Be quick to turn away anyone who isn’t interested in your whole self.
2026-09-08 13:53:54
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KDal :
me not even knowing i have an issue, 😅 they figure it out before I do😅
2026-09-08 04:48:49
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queenofelboweating :
Do you think it’s realistic to find an ace man to marry and do surrogacy with, and like are there true ace men that aren’t covering for something else? Also do you have any encouragement for this bc im so disgusted by the cultural narrative
2026-09-07 22:03:45
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pilot :
i wouldn't share trauma early on, but i absolutely want to share being chronically ill on the first date if not sooner. tired of wasting my own time
2026-09-08 03:41:54
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invisibleactsoflove :
As a guy, my big disclosure right now is that I’m still Covid conscious and masking. I used to just casually slipping on a mask going to the bathroom on a first date and seeing the reaction. But I got bored with the ensuing conversation, so I put it in my profile.
2026-09-08 07:07:14
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Bea :
What about when to disclose that you’re a slow burn? Esp if they seem like they go fast
2026-09-08 01:57:03
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jumpjumpjohnny :
For me it’s which ones of my issues do I reveal first? I need to divvy them out so they don’t get overwhelmed all at once!🤪😂I think fortunately at my age everyone has lots of issues.🥰
2026-09-07 23:28:58
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💌 :
you have beautiful eyes💞
2026-09-07 20:46:43
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georgia :
im usually pretty open about it but i struggled to tell him, i took that as a sign and dipped
2026-09-08 12:16:38
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EM :
What about having a child or being divorced? when to disclose such information?
2026-09-08 10:23:25
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Luna Berit 🥥 :
can you go more into detail about disclosing the sa? i’ve heard people say you should never tell a man how other men have treated you badly and im on the fence about it. like for example ive heard you should lie that your ex always brought you flowers even if he didn’t so the expectation is high. idk if that advice is good in regards to sa
2026-09-08 09:11:58
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⋆ ˚。⋆ – Ellie ! . ݁₊ ⊹ :
I always share everything about myself at the start rather than stretch it out because I don't want to waste my time with a person who will leave me eventually anyway once they find out more. Makes no sense to wait
2026-09-08 12:43:19
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Emily :
Yeah wait as long as you can
2026-09-08 03:38:06
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