I wrote this a couple of weeks ago after i started the separation process from my husband of two years. I kept abandoning myself every time i got into a relationship since middle school because i just wanted to be chosen. I then started making them “my world” furthermore abandoning myself. I am now 32 in October and finally choosing myself, i am The World. I am worth fighting for but i dont care to stay somewhere that doesnt see that. So i dont feel like i need to be chosen by others anymore. Im awake now and can’t unknow what i learned about myself. If i go back i will be actively choosing to abandon myself. I know it’s scary to be alone guys but stop abandoning yourself just to not be alone 🥰 I feel limitless and scared at the same time but no longer letting fear control my life!
2026-09-07 22:23:50
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When you heard sirens I heard a motorcycle.
2026-09-08 03:07:21
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We love the midnight gospel, I’ve never been more sure of the outcome despite how circumstances appeared
2026-09-08 04:59:56
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This throat chakra, I completely broke down today 😞
2026-09-07 23:23:27
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soo i should block him
2026-09-08 17:03:44
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Well she needs to get to calling me cs I losing my mind and it’s been a year now 🥺
the way you broke this down has me replaying my entire situation and realizing that I see exactly what's happening and I understand it so clearly thats why I'm at peace with however it plays out
2026-09-07 23:52:55
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12:22 on the clock rn
2026-09-08 04:23:08
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Omgg foreal ! When “me” as a anxious attachment, meets an avoidant. It was hard to leave but i left the situation fr🫶🏽🫶🏽! It definitely was a learning lesson omgg
2026-09-08 01:13:42
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You look so pretty baby btw thank you for your messages always babeee🥰🥰!
2026-09-07 22:11:11
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Me and avoidant attached to an anxious avoidant. I keep feeling the need to cut him off but can’t pinpoint why 😭
2026-09-08 02:48:35
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Girllllll sigh
2026-09-07 22:19:46
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so so accurate...Im anxious, Hes avoidant, CSA on both sides, so much love between us
2026-09-07 22:24:52
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Sister why is this on my fyp ??😂
2026-09-08 00:15:04
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I don’t want to hear it. It’s too late.
2026-09-07 21:15:20
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