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1-blessed-mammy :
They were abusive.
2026-09-08 00:32:26
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Kovy2325 :
why didn't you walk away? you dont have to have parents. trust me. I know.
2026-09-08 01:25:45
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gummybar4 :
Good for you💕
2026-11-01 17:42:45
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suerae35 :
I did the same.. my mom begged me, always to “save” my drug addicted brother… I lost almost everything, but started over, but then married a man who within 2 weeks of our marriage, I found out he was about to be foreclosed upon, so I bailed him out. I bought vehicles for him, and the financial abuse and guilt continued for years until he died. And in the meantime, Then I bought 40 acres next door with him promising he’d get his dad, the original landowner, to turn the mineral rights over to me if I put his name on my land purchase (which I bought using money I made off a home I owned prior to marrying him). He never honored his contract with me, quit working, and I became the provider. I paid everything off. And I’m treated horribly. I am retired, have no money. I cashed in everything for him. Now I try to pay all the bills on my SS, and that’s all I have, except ownership of the land… but that’s threatened by him and his family. We have now been living on only my SS and CC just to pay for groceries. I’ve begged him to let me sell part or whole of the land and houses… but he threatens me over and over. No real estate agent even will help because of his threats to him, and his children’s. Been living in this hell for 24yrs, but am in my 70’s. I have cancer but am recovering, but have no help.
2026-09-08 02:16:55
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docspin :
I always thought I could trust my Dad. That was a hard lesson learned. Now I trust no one.
2026-09-07 22:07:28
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Tina :
U weren’t stupid- u were conditioned to obey them all ur life!
2026-09-07 22:11:04
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DrKaty2005 :
Unless people have dealt with parents like yours, they will never understand. God bless them, aren't they lucky. Big hugs and I am so sorry. You deserved so much better.
2026-09-07 23:46:24
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gwen545 :
You were mentally abused.. these comments must come from people who were raised like The Brady’s.. I completely understand your thinking… congratulations on having the courage to take your power back
2026-09-08 13:35:37
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Garth Zader :
My dad loved to dispense terrible financial advice. Consequently I didn't really begin investing wisely until I was 50. I'm okay now but feel like I would have $500k more to my name if I had just invested in an index fund earlier.
2026-09-29 11:54:54
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K I R S T E N :
you've done amazing things to enhance your souls growth. everything you felt and thought and did was really confusing and tuff. proud of you. pray God has mercy on their souls for this is all tissue l that's left
2026-09-17 18:35:29
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OGPurplecatfish :
It's easy to tell people what they should have done when you're not in that situation, not living that life.
2026-09-08 12:58:03
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Sarah :
my entire life revolved around appeasing my mother's anxiety, anger, stress and big feelings she couldn't or wouldn't regulate herself. I went no contact and focus on regulating mine. it's been life changing. I'm so calm and happy now [Heartwarming]
2026-09-13 15:32:43
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murdog137 :
“Why didn’t you just….” Is one of those phrases that makes my skin crawl now that I’m NC. You don’t know what you don’t know until you do…😣
2026-09-08 01:55:59
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TxGingersnaps :
I think the comments are being unfair to you. You made a decision in good faith and were understandably hurt. You should have been able to take them at their word. You've been betrayed by them. The comments are just attacking the victim to no end. I am so sorry you were hurt. I am so sorry they are criticizing you. You deserve better. Thanks for sharing your story. Maybe we will be wiser and more compassionate.
2026-09-08 00:13:50
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Mom2many 🇨🇦 🇺🇲 🇺🇳 :
You weren't stupid and I don't like you talking about my new "friend" like that. You were conditioned to comply. That's not stupidity, it's abuse. Please be careful how you speak to you in your thoughts. Those inner voices can be changed.
2026-09-08 01:17:28
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The Chang Family :
Don't be angry at yourself. You're supposed to be able to trust your parents. But, now you know and you can cut ties with them.
2026-10-02 22:55:53
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Yvonne Arendsen :
Thats not stupid!!! Its normal you trust you parents… shit you can’t… i know it
2026-09-08 15:30:28
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Itzmemz :
When you talk about your parents it is very similar to my parents. I get it!!
2026-09-07 23:40:56
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Dena :
You are not stupid, this is their issue
2026-09-07 23:33:37
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Frangelicana 🇦🇺 :
🥳🥳🥳🥳Like me, you'd grown up under the coercive control of your dad who'd trained everyone, including your mum, to do everything to keep HIS peace. And a lifetime of training is SUPER HARD to overcome! But oh so sweet when you finally stop pretzeling yourself to keep everyone else's peace and instead, learn to centre yourself and KEEP YOUR OWN PEACE! 🤤🤤🤤✌️✌️✌️
2026-10-08 12:30:48
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Crabtree :
I’ve never believed children are entitled to an inheritance but I’ve known two separate individuals committed to the family farm.They never went on with their only lives as adults committing to helping dad.In both cases #1 the father died and the mother sold everything and left the kids with nothing#2 The father sold the farm and left them high and dry although for yrs said if you help me all of this will be yours.Shamefull
2026-10-04 15:27:48
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snowybaabaablacksheep :
You've been conditioned over years and years. Unless you've been through it, you'll never fully understand
2026-09-17 11:49:57
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karenpeterson673 :
I get how that can happened. I was brainwashed the same way. Glad you’ve seen the light.
2026-09-08 15:10:58
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user8625236794934 :
but... i wouldnt say it was because you were stupid... it's because certain things needed to happen for you to have these experiences and understand and know and feel and wake-up from this life-long gaslighting and bullying you've lived your whole life. now... if you agreed to something like this again after having gotten where you are now... well that yes, that could be called stupid. you are doing great. i love watching the work that you are doing with yourself and how you are discovering what has made you and how you are.. and that you have reached enough clarity to stand with your anger and sorrow on your own base and take charge of your energy!! love you!!!!
2026-09-15 10:42:55
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Esthela :
Some people just don’t understand the hold the parents have on some children even if those children are grown.
2026-09-11 13:09:15
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