@drvlaw: Is it a good idea to pay the #stayathome parent a salary? #marriage #divorcelawyer #divorce #relationships

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roberthaffner1
roberthaffner1 :
Paying a SAHM salary means splitting the money, his and hers, why do you need your own money?
2026-09-23 15:11:34
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crazychristine1989
crazychristine1989 :
stay at home mom here... we have 1 bank account and all money is OURS. I write out bills for every paycheck and anything beyond that we decide together where it goes.
2026-09-23 14:40:20
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donaldgros8
donaldgros8 :
If I pay my spouse half my salary the bills won’t get paid
2026-09-07 23:07:00
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maramor02
Matt :
There isn’t any money to pay when you are married. It’s household income, not his, not hers.
2026-09-08 02:09:29
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baseballmama519
baseballMama :
married 20 yrs,still raising 5 kids and its been made clear since day one that its his money and if I need or want anything for me or the kids i have to ask him for it. im not to touch his money. and if he buys me anything I have to find a way to pay him back.
2026-09-08 17:21:52
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ottinger.tyler75
ottinger.tyler75 :
Why doesn’t the SAHM have 100% access to the bank account? My wife and I have separate bank accounts and 1 join account. When we had our first kids she we decided that staying home would be best, I gave her complete access to my checking account. Not doing this is abuse in my opinion.
2026-09-08 15:58:27
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kristinmichelleyt
Kristin | Chaos Coordinator ♥️ :
I don't need my husband to pay me lol. His money is my money.
2026-09-07 23:56:22
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corrosive28
Corrosive :
Stay at home dad here. All our money is both of ours. I don't need a salary, its all in the same account. I pay all the bills.
2026-09-08 16:54:17
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kvasir89
inues485 :
would that person be making all that money if they had to pay for childcare instead?
2026-09-07 23:49:59
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this_mama_jess
Jessica Richards :
If you’re married why do u need to ask? His paycheck may have his name on it but it gos into our account
2026-09-08 11:49:33
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jeremyluedeker
Jeremy Luedeker :
So, will they use that money to pay for household expenses? If so, they why pay them in the first place other than the government to be able to tax it some more? If not, then what are we talking about? Now the earner has to work additional hours or get a 2nd job to cover the gap, or else the family will end up on the street. How about you don't get paid because all of your living expenses are paid for. I've known many live-in nannies that didn't make a wage because their room and board was paid for. So it was an even exchange.
2026-09-08 00:18:50
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ms_teapot
Ms Teapot :
The stay at home parent is getting free rent, utilities, food, clothing, spending money, etc. The household chores and child care are what they do to earn a paid-for lifestyle.
2026-09-08 04:06:08
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1kellyferalfarm7
The Kelly Homestead :
I was a live in nanny for 2 years. I was paid 4000 a month. 4 kids, 2 dogs, 2 adults. I did all the cooking, cleaning, laundry, homeschooling, potty training, child care, grocery shopping, even scrubbed floors by hand, etc. I am a SAHM now. 750 a month for that is an insult. Sorry.
2026-09-22 11:36:00
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christina.cant.cook
christina.cant.cook :
My husband’s pays me a salary each week but I also have access to all the money and can spend it how I want
2026-09-08 02:08:48
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coastaldave7
CoastalDave7 🇨🇦 :
The stay at home gets everything paid for. Food, housing, bills etc. why would you pay them a salary on top of that unless they pay 50%
2026-09-08 12:02:34
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realrocksteady
Jacob H :
The money I make is our money so “paying” my spouse is just another place for taxes to be taken from us?
2026-09-08 03:54:43
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spanglishgirlie
spanglishgirlie :
How about we get free healthcare instead? 😂
2026-09-08 18:42:57
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debiinsana
tigger :
you must split the salary of the one working outside the home, both are working. the one working outside the home wants paid for their work so why shouldn't the person working inside the home be paid as well
2026-09-08 02:29:20
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thomas.watkins1
Thomas Watkins :
why create a tax liability?
2026-09-07 23:41:21
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dylanseese7
Dylan Seese :
Isn’t the government introducing a policy to pay the stay at home married parent like 9k a year for caring for their children
2026-09-08 11:12:46
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angieg._92
angieG._92 :
Stay at home mom here I don’t have to ask for money but if it’s a big purchase than yes we talk about it but for normal day buying something for my self or the kids nope I buy it and when he gets home oh isn’t this cute glad my husband isn’t like that if anything my husband ask me if he can get it
2026-09-22 14:57:51
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taytor_tot20
Taylor Nicole :
I thought he was referring the the thing trumps trying to pass. My husband wouldnt be the one paying me in that situation however my husband sees it as our money anyway
2026-09-08 15:49:32
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kelly_faith.farm.family_
Kelly Faith-Led Farmhouse Mama :
My husband was so happy when I told him about that
2026-09-08 18:13:10
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chakka171
Chakka :
isn't room & board a type of wage. so this would be payment on top of that. which I am for.
2026-09-07 21:58:19
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dunedrifter
DuneDrifter :
he's asking you
2026-09-08 00:42:26
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