Srna Stos
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Monday 07 September 2026 22:00:42 GMT
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jhill825 :
If they wanted to, they would learn how to grow their capacity.
2026-09-08 23:27:23
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𝕸𝖎𝖈𝖍𝖊𝖑𝖊 :
Yall realize this is not her making excuses for that person , and this is not a video telling you to accept bare minimum or lack of effort , this is just to have a better understanding of what could be going on with someone, and no this does not apply to every situation, because some do not care and are very toxic , but you will be able to tell the difference, also don’t use this to accept low effort or lower your standards because of this video . Just don’t be so harsh towards someone and have grace , but kindly move on if you’re not getting what you deserve .
2026-09-08 11:48:56
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noneoftheabove.mov :
i’m having a hard time accepting this
2026-09-08 01:41:36
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July :
So an avoidant ?
2026-09-08 05:43:44
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ugc.katerynaa :
This is much NEEDED to hear, thank you
2026-09-08 00:01:29
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Caitlin Kelley :
Loveee this healthy reframe
2026-09-08 01:38:35
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carola :
That’s not what “if they wanted to, they would” means. It means that if someone really likes or loves you, you’ll see it in their actions, and you won’t constantly have to question how they feel. It has nothing to do with self-worth. It’s simply recognizing that if someone isn’t being clear about their feelings or making an effort, then they likely don’t like or love you enough and that’s okay. The phrase is actually meant to be a pep talk to yourself. It’s a reminder not to make excuses for someone’s lack of effort or keep questioning where you stand.
2026-09-11 00:26:58
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Charlotte :
It’s NEVER about us truly
2026-09-08 03:43:58
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an.affairwithlife :
SUCHHHHH an important reminder
2026-09-08 01:06:54
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dodoella7 :
Needed and on time!
2026-09-14 19:51:22
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caro :
Βееn rеаdіng ”Ԝhу Ԝе Chаѕе Ԝhаt Нurtѕ” rесеntlү аnd ѕօmе օf thе іdеаѕ аbοut аttасhmеnt аnd mіхеd ѕіgnаlѕ hіt ԝаү ᴄlօѕеr tо hоmе thаn Ι ехреᴄtеd.
2026-09-09 16:18:33
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@EE :
Yes true
2026-09-15 14:07:23
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Scottie :
Yes! They’re best may not be the best for you🙌🏻
2026-09-15 15:43:20
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Okiidoh squishies :
So true also u have the most adorable features 🥹
2026-09-15 16:28:46
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alex :
yeah. it sucks.
2026-09-14 03:17:40
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everydaylo_ :
My mama tells me all the time, some times it’s a them problem not a YOU problem.
2026-09-09 20:10:45
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Monchelmarie :
Also learning what capacity you’re willing to deal with…. Everyone is so different.
2026-09-08 19:50:39
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Eve :
My issue is that through lovebombing he gave me the impression that he did have the capacity. Then the hot & cold behavior began. When I explained I needed more communication like in the beginning, suddenly he 'couldn't be that guy for me' anymore.
2026-09-08 05:57:48
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sirrah_ahrak :
I always say “my 100% is not the same as everyone else’s 100%”
2026-09-09 15:02:22
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__xoxoxo :
That makes zero sense you cannot possibly stand here and say that like you miss somebody, you love somebody, you care about somebody yet your actions don’t reflect it
2026-09-09 02:55:02
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Mycah Rose🌹 :
& thats fine! But we are adults. & we should be self reflecting. Just because you KNOW you don’t have the capacity doesn’t mean you can’t TRY to do better for the sake of the person you “love”. Consideration is the highest form of love.
2026-09-08 02:56:44
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