27 years, eldest daughter married to youngest son. I just put this together in the past few years after I burned out from over functioning. In my experience the youngest son will step up when the eldest daughter stops doing everything for them.
2026-09-10 09:45:15
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T :
First, thank you for this video wow. Second, I'm still unclear sorry! Do I just back up? Let the pieces fall where they may? Is there a way for him to build this...awareness of what needs to get done without me pointing it out?
2026-09-08 08:55:35
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thatsmytay :
Here I am again under your comments….”if I’m a good guy” doing everything you ask me to then you should be happy…WHEW!!! That’s how the loop continues….bc how dare you be unhappy when I’m doing everything you ask me to! Chiiile😩
2026-09-08 02:27:31
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Laura :
How can they learn to fill the gray area 😭
2026-09-10 02:55:53
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Leanne :
So if he says “just tell me what to do” and then still doesn’t do it, then he doesn’t love me by his own definition.
2026-09-28 11:18:50
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cassandstufff :
his mother was neglectful & put him abusive situations over & over and used him as her comfort blanket
2026-09-22 19:13:36
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AuRee42 :
Eldest Daughter 🙋🏾♀️what if the youngest sons Mother passed when he was 8? raised by his Father?😒
2026-09-20 05:50:34
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juspr3ttywitty :
What about me n him reconnecting after 13 months? How to keep the connection? Or what to look for?
2026-09-21 01:40:18
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Original Goddess Tee🧚🏾♀️ :
This is so relatable
2026-09-21 13:49:14
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Mogul :
Eldest daughter ideally belongs with the eldest son? Dating the youngest son as the eldest daughter turned out to be a hot mess.
2026-09-16 16:17:28
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dr rejectsuperstar :
i see this in REAL TIME. dated a youngest, a middle…and why i never looked back after an eldest. it’s exhausting having to manage grown men. affirmed when i see my 30-something BIL never taking initiative & always asking what to do for every little thing. when he asks “are you suuuure?” to his mom when he asks if he should leave his plate at the dinner table and she says “just leave it” and then he leaves it to go play videogames. and i end up having to clean it up in the end 👀 with the help of his older brother
2026-11-08 07:59:18
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✨Enlighten Me❌🐐♑️ :
I will never ever date another youngest son! I learned a hard lesson with that ninja!
2026-09-08 02:02:21
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