@iamakgi: It’s a control mechanism. To intentionally go for those people is weird, creepy, predatory, and an obvious sign that you don’t trust yourself enough to feel loved without controlling others. That’s all it boils down to. You can’t show up as yourself, so you depend on that dynamic to give you that sense of security. It’s sad. #autisticadult #neurodivergenttiktok #bodycount #predator #autistictiktok
“Shy/awkward -> insecure -> easy to manipulate” is what i’ve seen
2026-09-08 16:25:31
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asair :
In that same vein, women w a very active social media presence claiming they want a man with little to no social media
2026-09-08 08:57:30
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✝️JefCostello☭⃠ :
The shy men that women fetishize:
2026-09-08 20:13:05
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hitorigotoh26 :
Autism is confusing cause you can’t read social ques the moment they happen I would know cause I am oblivious to taking hints which is scary cause there really is people who will take advantage of that
2026-10-21 06:49:46
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The Main man :
They only like them because they feel like we won’t cheat. They don’t actually find awkward and shy personalities traits attractive. They find it repulsive.
2026-09-08 11:29:49
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Bussyeater 🇺🇲🇳🇵(🇵🇸) :
We are getting fetishized??? Damn, news to me
2026-09-08 18:12:43
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solo lou :
And yet they hate shy men
2026-09-08 14:01:08
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pipnyip :
I’ve noticed this trend of SOME women saying that they want a man who “looks like he’s never felt the touch of a woman” like it’s so odd
2026-09-09 01:43:16
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yami :
It’s like people who fetishize foreigners. Why are you attracted to peoples ignorance? It’s predatory, idc
2026-09-07 23:02:23
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yafavoritecousin_ :
Same thing with the women who “love” dad bods. They fetishize those men cause they’re easy to manipulate.
2026-09-08 18:20:42
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rayney_radioactive :
I like awkward guys/girls cause I’m awkward so there less likely to think I’m weird 😭😭😭 (definitely agree tho)
2026-09-08 11:50:55
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Aris ᯓ★ :
it's just ppl sexualizing neurodivergent/mentally unwell men same with men who say "I want a bpd gf" ppl like to prey on others who aren't capable of standing up to them
2026-09-08 23:26:22
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Selina🪷🦢 :
“I like that autistic man” audio pmo like why are we romanticizing a disability
2026-09-09 14:52:02
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Bagchaser863 :
As an awkward man myself I also like awkward women but not for controlling purposes, I like having something I can relate to my partner with
2026-09-08 16:52:05
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megajf16 :
"attractive" shy awkward men for the dudes confused in the comments.
2026-09-10 03:50:14
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snowcoma :
They think shy/awkward = innocent, won’t cheat, less likely to put their foot down, and will adore her more than an experienced extrovert would. As someone who has a lot of introverted guy friends…this is all absolutely wrong.
2026-09-09 00:32:37
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Twobagsofsugar :
Why is bad for a women to desire loyalty and stability. Women in society are often bullied for going for “ the bad guy” so why is bad when we instead wanna be with the nice guy instead ?
2026-09-09 09:31:26
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manitchka18 :
lady I am at the point of desperation that I dont even care if I am fetishised
2026-09-09 21:47:57
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–julie ! (*つ´・∀・)つ 🇫🇷 :
omg this reminds me when some women on here were lusting over nerds who "never felt the touch of a woman" (in their words) 😭
2026-09-09 03:09:49
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lanky :
then when the novelty wears off you’ll be constantly persecuted for being shy as if they didn’t know that from the get go
2026-09-10 11:13:31
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yami :
There’s a lot of women that either intentionally or unintentionally sexualize men through infantilizing them and I hope I’m not the only one who notices lol
2026-09-07 22:48:47
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sckb9 :
Borderline predatory tbh
2026-09-08 17:50:21
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Callum :
also they will KILL you for being shy
2026-09-24 17:50:13
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Dez :
It’s cause the shy awkward type may be standoffish to the dumb things they do and won’t speak up for themselves
2026-09-08 16:55:12
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