@vivandsook: Aquarius Rising ♒️ | Virgo New Moon Who in your life is looking for clarity, and who is looking for control? Good-faith relationships can survive inconvenient information. Control-driven relationships need to defeat, disregard or distort inconvenient information in order to preserve a position. With this Virgo New Moon in your 8th house, Mercury (9th house) opposite Neptune (3rd house) can make it difficult to separate what was actually communicated from what somebody has interpreted, assumed or projected onto the situation. But Venus square Pluto introduces another question: Is the confusion accidental, or has somebody become invested in a particular version of events because it gives them greater control? Try making the conversation more precise. Ask: “What would change your mind?” “Can you explain my position back to to me”. Someone seeking clarity can usually tell you exactly what they don't understand and can change their position when new information arrives. Someone seeking control may reveal that they understood you perfectly well. Winning was simply the real agenda. But Aquarius, apply exactly the same test to yourself. What would change your mind? Can you accurately represent their position? Can you acknowledge information that complicates your own? You can learn an enormous amount about a relationship when you make the conversation harder to manipulate. Only Love, Viv & Sook #AquariusRising #VirgoNewMoon #Astrology #Aquarius