thesydneyfinn
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Oldbabysister :
Everyone online saying that a man knows within the first conversation if they want to marry you🙄 they are just being unsafe quite frankly and irrational.
2026-09-10 00:07:49
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Corin :
Yall gotta let the man breathe and get to know you!
2026-09-09 22:21:23
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✨𝓝𝓲𝓰𝓱𝓽𝓼𝓱𝓪𝓭𝓮✨ :
Heavy on the “don’t confuse dysfunctional expectations for high standards”! 👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻
2026-09-08 04:41:28
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Optimistic :
Gurl i love your takes. Men are whole people too and it always feels like women are expecting these ppl to be 100% perfect and infallible 100% of the time. They have lives too
2026-09-08 13:28:24
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merr 🐚 :
Sydney, any advice on getting over a guy I really liked saying he just wants to be friends (after multiple dates)? I'm not going to stay friends with him and I think it was just a platitude (although I understand him 100% I've been on the other side of it often). He was a good person, really perfect for me, I guess just not a match on his side but it still hurts :( And it was the first time ever when he wasn't pressuring me to text constantly etc but I feel like maybe I messed up somehow? Failed to create intimacy? (I'm rather avoidant) Or maybe it was looks and he was doing what I sometimes do (trying to fall in love without initial attraction) - but that I can't control. If it was my behaviour tho, I'd like to know how to fix it
2026-09-08 18:57:33
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Lumka :
😂😂😂😂 “ He doesn’t know you” 🗣️🗣️
2026-09-09 21:43:57
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user2210697500 :
my cologne is good. I followed all your advice. got into a relationship and he left me 40 days in due to "not having feelings like he's had for me in the beggining". This is extremely weird to me. 1st guy to ever leave me + the shortest relationship I've ever had. Do you know what the real reason might be? I really liked him and strived for something LONG-TERM with him. We're 28 and 29 btw.
2026-09-09 06:09:50
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t66_ghkk :
your advice should be used in PTSD therapy. you’ve helped me recover from mine and now im in my first ever relationship with a sweet and patient guy :,) all this pink pill content going mainstream and being presented to young women was a mistake, it fearmongered me into rejecting any guy that asked me out because i assumed they would hurt me. i thought relationships were like some chess game. but it’s meant to be playful and fun !! i understand now. im only 20 and my bf is 21, i dont expect him to be a “provider” because we are young. pink pill has convinced us that relationships are transactional, sort of like prostitution ..
2026-09-08 15:56:12
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miimii_98 :
I've been watching your videos only for a short while and I am very much usually the person who relies on frequent texting as a measurement of interest. I was talking to a guy recently and I got blocked because I didn't reply for 24 hours. It has made me realise that not getting an immediate reply isn't the end of the world. I had a busy Sunday and work Monday, and also just didn't feel like talking. It's been kinda liberating!
2026-09-08 05:35:57
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Janiyah 𒉭 :
I wish everyone in the world could be forced to watch your videos
2026-09-08 13:33:50
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Hellmage29x :
Yeah, those are multiple year relationship history kind of expectations
2026-09-08 20:45:51
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appleuser42657437 :
Hi Sydney, I know you always talk about staying loving and that love is a purifying power which I completely agree with. Is it possible then, for the most loving thing to be letting go of someone? Loving to them and to yourself.
2026-09-08 19:03:52
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eggpicklecheesesandwich :
we've been "talking" two months. haven't met irl. he's offering me an allowance and to move me in to his house. help, what have I done. at this point I'm in it for the plot.
2026-09-08 04:35:45
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usernjxbbdgraj :
what if it has been 4 months?
2026-09-08 14:20:24
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User9472 :
Im sorry but I laughed when you said "he doesnt know you" and the tone too - was great! gave me a chuckle
2026-09-08 18:31:44
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. :
what do you think of this notion of men know right way if they like you or not and he's not slow , he's just not that into you ?
2026-09-09 17:23:54
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AllthatGlitters :
He told me he’s about to see someone exclusively. Took your advice and didn’t settle for what I don’t want. Made it clear what I want and have walked away. I’m handling this better than I could’ve hoped for, by taking your advice. But it hurts—how do you stay open to love and not shutdown-I have to believe there’s enough love in the world for me-but all my nervous system wants to do is decide it’s not for me and give up. Advice?
2026-09-08 13:51:43
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cecilie :
am i the only one who’s depression have gotten worse cause no one want them? cause i get men don’t wanna pursue us when they hear these things (the examples you put at first) all the time…
2026-09-08 05:55:19
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Natalia :
That’s me rn 😂😂😂
2026-09-08 21:19:21
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