@filthewriter: Today’s lesson: interpersonal communication

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learnwithmyra
Learn with Myra :
I’m the queen of Irish goodbyes … I’m a member of a big Hispanic family - it’s an act of congress to leave any event.
2026-09-08 10:32:17
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priyabeans1
supersallyfragilistic :
Ok but that first one… my husband knows that if I don’t introduce him right away, it’s because I forgot the other person’s name. He knows to introduce himself so that I can hear the other person’s name as well! Oops.
2026-09-08 11:28:02
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jewels_n_maggie
JLynn :
How about while driving? if I let you in the lane what happened to the nice wave to say thank you
2026-09-08 10:27:20
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jeythenitewing
MAD1 :
Irish goodbye >>> any alternative. Apologies.
2026-09-08 07:20:40
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marylouhardisty
marylouhardisty :
More of this content
2026-09-08 10:42:04
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renes_creations
Rene :
I was raised rural with manners. I thought once I moved to a city it would be more civilized. Hell no less civilized than the hillbillies I grew up with.
2026-09-08 12:27:26
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dr.singhchiropractic
Dr. Ria :
I need this video running on loop in my waiting room on what to do at a Dr’s office. Patients sit down with me and make me guess what’s wrong with them while they stare at their phone. The answer to every question is I don’t know. I mean, you don’t know why you are here? 🤯
2026-09-09 04:18:37
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hellospaceface
SpaceFace :
Fil!! I’m Jen and I want to be your friend 🤩
2026-09-09 03:35:47
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lolag360
Lolag360 :
Omg. The lack of interpersonal skills out there insane!
2026-09-09 07:45:45
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whosthatgirl78
whosthatgirl78 :
This. This. All of this. 👏🏻👏🏻
2026-09-08 10:59:19
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mama_og_philly
mama_og_philly :
If I have you stand there like an asshole it’s bc I forgot their name and you need to step up and start the intro process with a “I’m Fil, and you are?” or similar. Don’t you know me by now? 😉
2026-09-08 11:50:39
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blondeandunbothered89
BlondeAndUnbothered89 :
Yes 🙌🏼 thank you! I took a Lyft/uber with my ex like 10 years ago and she happened to know the driver. It was about a 30 minute drive home and I was in the backseat and she didn’t introduce me once the whole drive! I was soooo offended and we got in a fight over it. I thought I was overreacting but you just validated my feelings…10 yrs later. lol. Better late than never. 🤣
2026-09-08 11:08:40
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chantwba9pf
chantwba9pf :
love all of this! cept don't say "how is your day" to people working. you dont care and they shouldn't be telling you. a simple "good afternoon, good morning"
2026-09-08 12:32:53
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5ilverwolf
Amatus :
Yeah I’m keeping the Irish goodbyes - good stuff tho 💕
2026-09-09 02:53:41
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angelaco813
Angela813 :
Fil, I don’t disagree with you. AND, as someone married to and has a sibling with autism, sometimes it’s not a matter of being rude and instead it’s the result of a brain that doesn’t pick up on social cues. My autistic sister is significantly better at managing these situations than my autistic husband, but both are tremendously lacking in the interpersonal communication department. They’re both very sweet, caring human beings though - they just don’t get it.
2026-09-08 06:50:06
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malspalace
Mallory :
All spot on. Thanks professor
2026-09-08 05:25:03
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peacelovetoo
user5077902902912 :
Amen. Thank you very much
2026-09-08 12:35:43
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cwill88.85
Toddswife :
Always taught my kids to hold doors, especially for the elderly but for anyone. The number of times they would and receive no acknowledgement! I also had to teach them that just because people are assholes, they shouldn’t stop doing it. They are adults now and Fil you are their brother from another mother 😂
2026-09-08 10:20:00
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communicationbestie_
communicationbestie_ :
I approve this message. 🙂‍↔️🤌🏾😅
2026-09-08 12:58:02
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charmcitymegan
Megan Armstrong :
I Irish goodbye because I know that no one gives a shit that I’m leaving 😅
2026-09-08 11:13:01
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mikayladaniel_
Mikayla Daniel :
I feel these examples to my CORE
2026-09-08 06:49:30
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amyamyamy.amy
Azedit :
Thankfully, my kids don’t need to take this course, and they’ve made good choices in friends who don’t need to either. My hack: have a Costco membership, and take your kids to all of the sample stations. Practice making eye contact, saying hello, asking if they may please try a sample, and saying thank you or no thank you. Rinse and repeat ad nauseam. I do not care if taking 15 seconds holds up the greedy grab and go gremlins. We now know so many of our sample reps that we have surrogate grandparents, and I have well mannered kids (most of the time!)
2026-09-08 12:02:35
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unaprofecolombiana
W@nderlust :
I need to take you in my classroom for career day !!!!!😁😁😁
2026-09-08 15:50:16
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frostems68
user7414482220398 :
But what if I can’t remember the person’s name?!! I’m really bad with names, and if I don’t introduce you right away, it means I can’t remember who that person is that has walked up and started talking to me lol
2026-09-08 16:00:12
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laurelannl
🐝🐝laurelannl🐝🐝 :
I might posit that the person behind the counter may not be particularly interested in sharing about their day. But definitely the "Hi," or, "Good morning!"
2026-09-08 10:44:44
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