@marjkupps: Would you marry someone who believes in 50/50 for bills? We had that conversation before we got married, and it led us to rethink what “your money” and “my money” even means in a marriage. Because sometimes, the most important financial lessons are the ones we choose to learn and pass on differently. Change Happens With The Right Conversation. What do you think? @OldMutualSA #StartAConversation #OldMutualPF #HeritageMonth
50/50 doesn’t make sense if you don’t make the same amount of money😭😭what if his 50 percent is my 80 percent
2026-09-08 09:34:32
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kea_mo :
maybe not 50/50 but 70/30 🥰
2026-09-08 07:16:04
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The Ops girly :
Marj is actually such an adorable woman, she has this beautiful aura - love her gentleness.
2026-09-19 18:09:23
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Ayanda_Dlamini04 :
I’m learning 💯
2026-09-19 14:23:08
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Khokho Madlala :
I still say I need to learn to talk to a man
2026-09-09 06:38:28
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Mandlakazii__ :
Single AF and taking notes 🙂↕️
2026-09-08 16:35:33
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KM 🌷👩🏽💻 :
Getting that financial advisor QUICK
2026-09-08 09:29:44
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Sindi ✨ :
It’s such a tricky conversation but necessary.
2026-09-08 07:45:26
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Sakhile_Kayla_Mahlangu :
oh definitely get a financial advisor my babes, especially as a married couple. I financial advisor will also keep you accountable so you can meet all your financial goals like maybe invest a specific account every month.... because you know that every 6 months or once a year you have to answer to your financial advisor... It really does keeps you accountable. Just make sure they don't charge you in percentages but instead hours...
2026-09-08 07:21:28
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Dani DeeRock :
one of the number one causes of divorce is money. Not really the lack of but just the attitudes around it: generating it, saving it, investing it, expensing, and joint/separate.
2026-09-08 09:29:48
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Lady k¡ng :
"Things we didn't inherit" . love it.
2026-09-08 10:17:11
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Allida :
The money conversation is such a tough one in a relationship,, especially when both parties are "uncomfortable" but I think it's crucial. This advice is for me by the way. Let me go start it 😂😭
2026-09-08 09:39:19
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Marj Kupps :
Haibo TIK TOK FAM?! You did your big one on this one. The incredible conversations in the comment section? Wow wow wow. Thank you First Timers❤️
2026-09-09 08:07:35
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oMaziya :
So not 100/100? In marriage? With my wife and I it’s always been a what’s yours is mine and what’s mine is yours construct intentionally building for the collective good with total transparency and an intentional plan foward for growth for the collective, be in in building wealth and intensional support for education/ opportunities. The reality is I work as hard as I do yes because I love what I do but I want the very best for my wife and children 🤔 your page is actually very thought provoking, usbongele nalo baba please we appreciate you guys so much.
2026-09-08 09:57:38
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Rose Mnywabe 08 :
Transparency will have me even paying 100%
2026-09-08 17:33:53
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Sibonile Christabel :
the conversation of Parents making enough money and decisions that even when the parents are nolonger there the decisions made about money still raise their children. who are you leaving your kids with and the person l am leaving them with will not be financially stretched because of my kids.
2026-09-08 07:18:05
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Dee🫧 :
I love the eye contact ❤️😭
2026-09-08 07:41:13
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🦋 Miss Dee 🦋 :
Families should normalise having money talks, the same way they do with sex talks!
the best legacy to leave for your kids is financial intelligence
2026-09-08 11:59:57
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Tinapetrah :
😂😂😂 i low key want a secret account … you know just in case of emergencies
2026-09-08 20:57:17
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Call Me Nwabisa❤️ :
This is beautiful, now. Let me listen 🥰
2026-09-08 08:50:17
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bhongojack :
I definitely want to be more open with my kids about how to budget & spend money cause that's something my parents never really taught us. we never knew how much they got paid & who paid what & why, which I think is something that's important for kids to have a realistic understanding so that when they grow up they aren't too shocked at the cost of things especially stuff like bond or rent, groceries, rates etc.
2026-09-08 18:00:29
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