never even held hands and you’re telling me i have to expect any less 💀✌️
2026-09-09 06:03:08
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Ibrahim° :
If its something you’ve never done you have the right to disagree
2026-09-08 13:16:07
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Tootsiebootsie29 :
I feel like you’re not ready for marriage if you’re so focused on someone’s past that you can’t see who they are in the present. It’s completely valid to ask whether someone has been married before, but ultimately you’re marrying who that person is now and who they’re actively striving to become for the sake of Allah.
Having your own preferences is one thing, but shaming someone for a sin they may have sincerely repented from is another. Allah can forgive someone and completely transform their heart. And we should be humble about the sins of others because who’s to say we ourselves could never fall into the very sin we’re judging? 🤗
2026-09-09 05:11:32
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Yasir :
U got the wrong friends bro
2026-09-08 12:06:57
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Oslo :
No one is perfect I’m just talking abt my preference 🤷♂️
2026-09-08 09:14:45
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J :
There’s nothing wrong with wanting a person who has stuck to the same standards you’ve kept, then again it depends how bad you think that sin is
2026-09-08 13:44:54
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esc0bar.ali :
issue is we as muslims we shouldnt ask girl for what her previous sins were in first place, and we shouldnt shame their sins either, yes it okay to have a preference but the way you lot are saying it makes it sound girl is now poisonous. Don’t forget the prophet peace be upon him had married women who were married before.
2026-09-08 14:05:01
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زارا :
Na you arent wrong it’s js haram is so normalised these days there’s plenty of practicing women who’s never done that
2026-09-08 13:13:06
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leili🩵 :
What about a woman who hasn’t done anything haram before but was in a halal Islamic marriage?
2026-09-08 20:28:45
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lullyfliesaway :
Marriage is a small worry at the back of my mind
2026-09-08 14:01:40
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koalasenpai1598 :
Reverts with a past are a thing. I find most of our brothers would accept this. Then it’s not the act itself, but who did it that is. Or when. This changed my perspective on it. As long she has repented
2026-09-09 14:07:08
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landowner85 :
Nah bro they’re wrong
2026-09-08 13:11:32
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BACHIR :
Nah, you not bugging fam 😐
2026-09-09 15:40:02
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Mousab.C :
I think both sides are understandable because if you urself have stayed pure in terms of committing zina then ofc u have every right to expect the same of a potential partner but conversely, as Muslims we should keep our sins hidden regardless so really and truly ur future wife shouldn't tell she has kissed anyone even if she has but regarding this generation they are right in the sense that finding someone chaste and untouched is difficult so I believe either mindset is perfectly valid
2026-09-08 18:33:23
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á🎀 :
The plot has been lost
2026-09-08 19:45:27
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hazza :
Your right bro
2026-09-08 18:30:16
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Ilham :
The real world is scary man… 😭
2026-09-08 14:25:49
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RefutingCoconuts 🇵🇸 :
dont ever compromise on that
2026-09-11 08:02:45
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𝓜𝓪𝔂𝓪 ౨ৎ :
Nah you’re not wrong I’m with you also coz I can’t marry someone who has even held hands with the opposite gender let alone kissing and I will never lower my standards for that I can’t expect less
2026-09-16 12:25:12
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✿𝓷𝓲𝓬𝓴𝓷𝓪𝓶𝓮 ✿ :
They’re wrong! It’s an expectation to be chaste before marriage in our religion. Idk why we are forgetting that. If someone sinned they need to ask Allah for forgiveness and if they want marriage they need to go for a divorcee
2026-09-09 19:05:02
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Goldmalia :
They lost the plot. A lot of people also project themselves on to others.
2026-09-08 23:19:15
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aaliyahwiley :
if you love someone, you don’t know their true past anyway and neither should you judge them for it if the person in front of u has changed for the better. everyone also has preferences but, love should be stronger than your care for someone’s past
2026-09-09 11:39:57
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thenerdinme :
the question you should be asking yourself is.. have I kissed any girls? I don't like my man ever kissing anyone before me🤣🤣
2026-09-10 02:52:11
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R—- :
If you haven’t done it then you’re on the right sir
2026-09-09 22:21:50
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LumaBelle :
I agree with you
2026-09-08 17:02:36
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