@psych.2.grow: whatbit feels like to being married to an avoidant woman #Relationship #marriage #dismissiveavoidant

Twanner :

Let her avoid someone else

Jamesy_a :

Run boys run….. been married to one for 23 years. Leaving soon as you just go around and around in circles.

Archeohistorian :

These are the women the phrase “she changed the moment she got a ring on her finger” was created for. Avoidants make zero effort to make the relationship work. They breadcrumb just to keep you emotionally strung out.

🇺🇸Ethnic American🇺🇸 :

it's a mind fuck. they're narcissistic Soul Thieves. they don't change. give yourself Grace. don't Look back!

JasiriWarrior :

I spent 29 years doing this. It doesn’t get better. Perimenopause and menopause amplified it and made living with her unbearable. She refused to go to a licensed therapist at my suggestion. The last blow up we had was the last straw for me. I had to walk away for my own health and sanity.

Michael :

Even if you can finally manage to drag them to a therapist they don't do any of the work necessary to really change anything they do. Get out!

FIELDED_Of_Ember :

she said we are two different people. and it makes no difference if you're here or not .

user3535405014054 :

If you love her you will do what you have to do to make it work. What if she had cancer? Would you divorce her? Or stay and help her seek treatment?

Uaintcleared2know :

Nailed it

Trophy Armor :

Give her the exact same energy as she gives you, no more.

richarddowd632 :

lived it...now im leaving it

Glen Scott Tarbet :

Why should it be on me to love through it?

Fleetline :

guys stay single

mango smoothie :

Roman Par :

Leave them period

purescouse97 :

21 years of this shit, am done av gone

Clip Zone :

Some women come across as avoidant, but in actual fact its because they married men they SETTLED for. Deep down, there's some resentment toward the man because her type is something else, or in may cases, someone else. They can only fake affection and intimacy for a short while...

Knish :

DIVORCE THEM!!! You deserve better than a narcissistic sociopath

thomas414 :

They would rather deflect for decades than ever have a real conversation. Then they deflect that too. Perpetual deflectors and eventual cheaters.

Valhalla_Bound1 :

Don’t let the fucking narrator lie it isn’t an emotional detachment. They don’t care they are indifferent. They are basically narcissist with a nicer name. Do not ever believe that they love you. They don’t they’re not capable of it or they wouldn’t act the way they do. it’s literally the opposite of love.

Ryan "Boz" Boswell :

Wow, the message is spot on... even if the AI needs to go back to 7th Grade English class . but I did listen to the whole thing and take the time to comment.

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