@therealdrpsychmom: Some guys are dishonest with themselves and their wives about sex, saying things like "my drive at 50 is the same as it was at 18" and pretending they are in the best shape of their lives at 70. If you do this stuff, she can't be open and honest with you. https://drpsychmom1.substack.com/p/your-wife-cant-be-open-about-sex