1. Men will FAKE this in the beginning. That pretend empathy goes away once they "have" us.
2. As a woman, I dont empathize with everyone like we are "supposed" to. No one gets my full spectrum of emotions without discernment. That's just BEGGING to be used & abused. I will express Sympathy when appropriate, but empathy is reserved for the people (male & female) that have gone through a vetting process and I have determined they dont have toxic or ulterior motives for wanting access to me.
2026-09-08 16:34:55
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RandomguitarIguess :
The number one reason I was attracted to my husband was his emotional maturity and ability to empathize with me. I was actively getting over a different guy when I met my husband, and instead of telling me to go be with him, he listened to me and took the time to understand why I left and didn’t want to see that guy anymore. Years later, this man is my safe haven and I can tell him anything
2026-09-15 13:22:22
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Just_Sarah :
It has to be authentic empathy. No fake shit
2026-09-17 15:18:31
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Crystal 🤷♀️ :
I cucur. its way more than empathy as emotional intelligence is broader than that
2026-09-08 15:52:30
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Teora Leauanae :
Can confirm. A lack of empathy in ANYone is a huge ick for me and I want nothing to do with them.
2026-09-08 20:02:26
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JACNM :
I have to say that empathy is a great start, but don't stop there. There is so much more to being a human than empathy.
2026-09-08 19:10:49
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Lioness :
👍🏼
2026-09-08 15:44:26
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