@hwado.loml: god forbid we want a woman to have some self respect, not chase after the man who literally broke her, and actually choose the one who treats her right #shimsuae #baekdohwa #soohwa #operationtruelove #fyp
they genuinely compare one unanswered call to a decade of ghosting
2026-09-08 16:11:40
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Hwado <3 :
They make fun of Dohwa for chasing her while glorifying Eunhyuk for making her chase him like… it’s a man’s job to chase a woman, are their standards really that low? 😭🥀
2026-09-08 15:58:57
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..49% :
literally indirect misogyny 💔 like what do they want from her 😭 So what if she may have lingering feelings? Eunhyuk was the one who made her feel like she was allowed to be loved. She didn't see dohwa's feelings because she was busy TRYING NOT TO DIE in case people forgot, her beloved best friend AND sister betrayed her, the people she's known forever suddenly felt like strangers, she can't tell her parents because she doesn't wanna worry, she felt alone AND worthless AND tired. Yet people flame her for every "stupid" thing she's done? I mean... If your boyfriend who ghosted you(in your perspective despite the misunderstandings between both of you) suddenly comes back after you believe you were not lovable, won't you go crazy too? she's got a lot of questions she can't even bear to ask. Either is a great man if that's what the other fans believe but if you guys keep pushing her towards him when she's clearly not even settled some things in her heart she'll obviously get more confused. 10 years believing you something you hoped for is impossible is a long time after all. it doesn't matter what reasons the people who hurt her has. What matters was the fact that she was hurt and no one apologised. It's not just about who gets her in the end. What kind of reader reads simply to find out who "wins"? I do agree that the author feels like there is no longer passion in the story but still... Hating su-ae just because she "isn't choosing" the man you want her to be with... 💔
2026-09-09 03:15:24
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_ :
I HATE ALL OF THEM NOW! THE AUTHOR NEED TO PUT THAT PEN AWAY AND JUST DON'T COME MY WAY AGAIN!
2026-09-08 17:10:27
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Jazz :
they want suae to be a therapist, healer, doctor, basically a doormat for their dada 🥀
2026-09-08 16:03:35
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𝐹𝑖𝑛𝑎𝑎𝑥𝑦𝑧 シ︎ :
i saw a comment about this, they're so misogynistic like what? IT GOES BOTH WAYS
2026-09-09 04:52:48
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💙💜 :
warm take but I genuinely believe people shipping dowha and eun together is rooted in misogyny. They hate seeing a complex woman character not be so perfect. I get ships exist but they are only shipping the 2 because they don’t believe suae deserves their love. Shes a complex character and thats why I love her
2026-09-09 06:32:30
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cheo🔆 :
what i dislike about both fandoms is that people call sooae derogatory terms
2026-09-08 16:06:04
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𝐒𝐞𝐥𝐲 ☁️🫧 :
I hate fans like that
2026-09-09 06:44:29
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Kdnfisjcosjxishcwixnsi :
Even if you’re the perfect woman, nothing will satisfy men who have a never ending appetite for unhappiness/low self esteem. No one should have to do all the emotional labor in a relationship. Stay away from men who cannot express their emotions or men who refuse to open up. — Coming from an avoidant.
2026-09-09 02:35:33
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𐙚˚࿔ 𝐟𝐢𝐫𝐝 𝜗𝜚˚⋆ :
FRR i mean don’t touch MY GIRL, i understand her so bad people are saying « she forgot everything eunhyeok did for her » THANK GOD SHE DID ? the guy ghosted her for 10 years, 10 FUCKING YEARS (even if im team eunhyeok) and they want her to forgive him because he did a lot for her tho but those 10 years without any single word to each other erase the love they had and tbh ? i wouldn’t évent talk to someone who ghosted me for 10 years.
2026-09-08 21:06:24
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Silver :
Saw a vid the other day saying that dohwa only looks at her with lust and desire like???
2026-09-08 19:43:20
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💤 :
They are just mad that dohwa can speak up about his feelings unlike yk…
2026-09-08 21:02:10
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𝙏𝙪𝙖𝙣 𝘼𝙬𝙖𝙣 【 D‘STΛGE 】 :
Its like how a mom loves her daughter vs How two faces best friend treat their friends:
2026-09-09 00:49:30
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Tia ౨ৎ :
i love how this side is so transparent, the other side just sugar coats everything 😭
2026-09-08 16:11:35
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rose :
yeah..that man longs to be her bodyguard not her partner..she should just let him go find his courage to open his mouth n heal however n whereever he want..even an answer n explanation aren't worth itnow..😂
2026-09-08 22:58:09
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faye :
y'all can tell which side have standards and which side is full of birds 💀
2026-09-08 15:50:54
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ℬibi’ 💭 :
they let this being posted while the subreddit is heavily eunhyuk biased
2026-09-08 16:10:19
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Kori :
eun is the roots of it too for suae and he's the one accountable for making suae feel the way she is now since they had a relationship before.
2026-09-08 16:11:49
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💜Rayan 💜 :
I haven't read this, but does her fan have heard the song of "labour"? What do they want from the fl? The blonde one is a better choice for me because why they want the fl chase the ml does the bar is so low for them?and at the same time the hate the 2nd ml because he is chasing the fl and doesn't want to hurt her.
2026-09-08 17:24:31
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susu_ :
idk if they can read ngl
2026-09-08 19:28:47
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Nivallsin :
I am her team bc the f and I love her she grow and her personality 💗💗💗
2026-09-08 19:49:56
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bxj :
tbh its so dragging. no hope for eunhyuk part anymore whatever flashback reason he has. and i just think dohwa deserve someone else and suae should focus on herself and they stay as healthy friends but well just an opinion. its author’s story after all.
2026-09-08 20:29:01
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