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if we were allowed to be intentional with our inner beings, regardless of what that is, guidance/caregiver without saying it is masculine or feminine... life would be so much nicer. I've heard people say, "Just be real." but some of those same people can't accept "real" because it doesn't fit the mold society says it should.
2026-09-11 14:09:32
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It’s all brainwashing for control. If society were happy and healthy in their relationships the control is much harder. Masculine energy is leader, provider and protector energy. Feminine is nurturing, creative and playful. When couples are in the same energy it never works. They’re either always fighting or act like roommates.
2026-09-08 17:04:42
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I think a lot of women would respect the fact that you are trying to figure this out instead of getting defensive. The way I look at it, masculinity is a very good thing if channeled into the right direction. Toxic masculinity is trying to control a woman and manipulate her and what she does with her body and how she should act and all the bullshit standards that are set up for women. A lot of females are actually in their masculine energy right now. I think the bottom line is, if men would take their masculinity and use it in a positive way, to provide and to support and to lead correctly, a lot women would be able to take back their feminine energy and everything that men say they want out of a woman would be done by her willingly and freely because the man was playing his role as well. Kind of complicated, but simple at the same time.
2026-09-08 17:02:56
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Just like me, you’re a romantic. ❤️‍🔥 YES, IT FEELS LIKE LOVE, but it’s not. It’s where your imagination fills in the gaps where >consistency< was missing. We aren’t attached to who they >are<. We are attached to who we believe they could >become<. And being stuck in this state of limerence is NOT your fault. The combination of green flags sprinkled in between red ones, seeds planted by them through breadcrumbs, and your huge heart full of hope and positive thinking, developed this >potential<. If they’re avoidant and you’re anxious, then it’s highly likely LIMERENCE shaped your relationship bond. Here are a few ways to start breaking that: ✨ Expose the fantasy. Write down who you believed they were going to become, then list what they >actually< did. Reality checking weakens the illusion of limerence. ✨ Starve the dopamine loop. Even low-key checking keeps the “character” alive. Every peek reopens the story. Avoid these triggers like the plague; this is a limerence detox! ✨ Ground your body, not your thoughts. When the urge to ruminate hits, don’t feed it. Get up, move, do something, anything, call a friend, run in circles. ANYTHING. Limerence lives in your nervous system (body), not your logical brain. ✨ Redirect the meaning. That intensity or hope, or passion, IS NOT a sign they were “the one.” It’s proof that YOU are capable of deep attachment, and that capacity deserves safety and a REAL connection from someone who IS, not someone who maybe COULD be, one day, possibly. Healing doesn’t come from erasing them. It comes from separating the character you imagined… from the person they actually were. 💛 Save this if you’re breaking the spell
🖤 & Drop a heart if this brought clarity

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