@wanderlusqt:

dfoat2006 :

Avoidants are manipulative people, because they will do this with one person, realise their mistake internally and then go and do it to the next, and so on… they know they aren’t relationship people yet they let people catch feelings for them knowing they eventually won’t show up. Let’s not excuse their behaviour.

Anna Sheppard :

So basically, they operate like a child. They do or say what feels good in the moment without thinking any farther ahead.

shouzuku7 :

he did everythinggggg he seemed so secure and then at the last month he was so inconsistent that I noticed, got anxious, brought it up, and then he would not want to work through it...after the breakup or me reaching out I noticed how he was

Mely :

As the avoidant, I detach bec I feel too vulnerable

inez :

They piss me off fr

Kayyyy :

My boyfriend has avoidant tendencies, I think, but not an actual avoidant because yeah, it was really intense when we got together and he couldn’t leave me alone and he expressed everything to me and he cried to me, but he actually wants to take things slow like he doesn’t want me to move in right away he doesn’t want me to meet his son right away like he’s pretty slow moving with like our future but the way that he feels about me has been pretty intense

poppiesnpoetry :

Still shitty still sucks still hurts. Actually that makes it worse to know that lmaooooo

JayDee :

I actually left mine. Won’t be dealing with the back and forth anymore.

Tori :

So they do this with everyone they meet?

Bankless :

Been here.. its painful

Secret Santa :

Great analogy

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Yolis 💋 :

Omgawd, this makes sense now!! 😳

░m░a░t░t░e • Friend :

that is the exact moment the anxious person needs to take accountability for themselves and take distance. ask me how I know LOL

SIYAA :

how would you react with that kind of person?

opiumpapipigeon :

The exact day was when I asked her if we were official (only asked bc a mutual friend ask and I didn't want to disrespect her) if I only know 💀

djmanx210 :

she was, but i still had s lot of anxiety

✖️Mikey✖️ :

I see all these posts about dating them. How the fuck are ya’ll getting to the dating part because of the avoidant bs🤦‍♂️😭

Crosslite :

Only a avoidant can feel rejected while actively rejecting 😂😆

Kevanthemildlyamusing :

The difference is when you over eat or over drink, you only harm yourself…. 🫤