@niu.views: Do me and let others be #emotionalintelligence #confidence #socialskills

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babybashh
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Ppl actually get triggered when ppl have low energy?..
2026-09-08 20:58:15
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Izabel :
Why is low energy such a bad thing, people go through stuff and don’t always have the energy for other people.
2026-09-08 20:55:33
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iamquennalyn
Quennalyn :
The weird expectations yall have for others is exhausting.
2026-09-09 19:34:59
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not.quite.my.temp0
not.quite.my.temp0 :
It isn’t triggered it’s just matching the energy lol
2026-09-08 23:14:02
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cherrorist
cherrorist :
The problem is expectations. Stop writing a script for other people in your life.
2026-09-08 21:25:23
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chubbs.the.god
Chubbs. :
Maturing is realizing that not everyone needs to be happy to see u🤣 just be sure of yourself enough to not let everyone alter ur energy🤷🏽‍♀️
2026-09-09 01:28:41
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_phaguette__
phaguette :
sometimes people don't have energy to socialize it's not always because they hate you or something like that.
2026-09-08 21:00:39
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theowlmom
The Owl Mom 🦉 :
lol I ignore their low energy, it’s nothing to do with me, most likely having a bad day or tired. I keep going unless they are visibly uncomfortable 😂
2026-09-08 20:15:19
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angelx13xx
angel :
Low energy or just neutral energy not being a people pleaser or forcing anything.
2026-09-14 08:48:45
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aurorajean_xo
Aurora :
Low energy can be perceived as rejection, like they don’t like you. I think it’s pretty normal to feel upset/rejected if a friend doesn’t wanna talk to you but it’s important to understand that lack of response can be about their mood and not you
2026-09-09 18:17:53
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viwava347
Jo :
Neurotypicals and extroverts finally learning how to deal with people who aren't like them. Imagine having to do it 24/7 in order to survive every day life.
2026-09-09 07:41:17
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sophieshenna
Sophie’sHenna :
just don’t take it personal and you’ll be fine
2026-09-09 06:31:43
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olivia_skye123
Olivia :
Someone did the gracious version for me the other day and I was very grateful. It made me feel not judged and eased my anxiety
2026-09-08 21:12:45
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feetstanktoe
dddddddddd :
people get super triggered when you are one day low energy like just give them space
2026-09-14 06:26:35
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sheilakiguta
Ba Sing Slay 💅🏽 :
The last one seems so people pleasing to me. First one is the right one. It’s not triggered it’s reading the room. Leave people alone.
2026-09-09 04:49:35
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a.ndread
andrea :
When you don’t act all fake like everyone else you are automatically disliked by them
2026-09-08 23:30:10
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𝒟𝓎𝓁𝒶𝓃♡%ᵕ‿‿ᵕ% :
People not understanding the video. She’s showing how to handle someone with low energy without being so bothered by it. That’s why gracious is highlighted in green. It’s a positive way to show how to deal with people who have low energy and not having to keep up the good energy or be Low as well.
2026-09-09 03:54:44
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becomingkeke
BecomingKeke✨ :
I had low energy ONE time with a girl because I was distracted by something else…after that she started ignoring me. If you’re THAT sensitive and one sided then we don’t need to be around each other 🤷🏽‍♀️
2026-09-08 23:29:41
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zestyboyboyboy
zestyboyboyboy :
I don’t think she’s critiquing low energy but she’s teaching ppl how to respond appropriately to it without being mean
2026-09-08 23:24:47
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angelicspirit___
✨angelicspirit✨ :
huh?? What if the person is tired or something. That was a normal response.. she smiled and said she was good. wtf is wrong with ppl these days
2026-09-09 13:38:39
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milliestopsecret
millie :
Why would you invite someone with low energy to “come by if you like” heck no.
2026-09-08 20:23:01
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professionalpoltergeist
professional_poltergeist :
Since nobody in the comments knows how to interact with a human person: in bids for connections humans like to engage with discussions and rely on cues sent by the other person. When someone gives you a short answer, that is the the typical response of someone who is upset or not interested in talking to you. Low energy =lack of interest for whatever reason, and the other person is trying to figure why and may feel it’s a slight against them, try to over compensate, or disengage right away. We have all been every version that she is portraying, and it’s disingenuous to suggest you haven’t.
2026-09-09 03:43:59
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