@femme_questions: i’m definitely a switch, but seem to only ever encounter “touch me nots.” i have absolutely no issue with TMNs but of course we are not extremely compatible!! i would never pressure someone so i just move on and keep searching but this always seems to be my luck lol #wlw #wlwcouple #targetaudience #fypシ #xyzbca

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lemon._.sucker
🍊🐛🍃 :
Because the idea and feeling of being able to please my girlfriend and be the provider in all aspects including sex makes me feel more masculine and affirms my butch identity personally
2026-09-09 06:12:53
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charliexclex
Lex :
as a touch me not, penetration is painful for me and eating doesn't get there for me, so its easier to be a stone top. i just dont like it, just in the same way you aren't attracted to men. I'm not attracted to that. People do "it" differently and queer segs doesn't have to look a certain way.
2026-09-09 22:24:55
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rinspuddingcup
Rin™ 🦄🪽 :
I was SA'd as a child and I barely let anyone touch me, unfortunately
2026-10-13 19:39:53
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goatedaniela
daniela :
it makes me feel less masculine unfortunately and i dislike that feeling
2026-09-08 22:18:01
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slowkz3
slowkz3 :
even tho im gay i feel gay as shit doing that
2026-09-09 02:12:40
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lourdescain
lourdescain :
because a lot of us were molested as kids unfortunately.
2026-09-09 14:51:19
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morganrosie777
Ranibow Sprimkle🌈 :
I'm not a TMN (I'm a virgin😔) but I've always been really worried about when I'll have to perform for my partner so finding out TMNs are a thing was such a relief bc it's like wow that's my perfect match I didnt know that was an option bc I guess it's really not with guys
2026-09-09 09:12:01
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roseannevans2g7
roseannevans2g7 :
I don’t like touching or being touched. Masturbation every 4 to 6 weeks takes care of any urge I have. And the medication’s that I’m in also decreases my sex drive, so there’s that. At 75, I’ll probably end up alone, but at least I’ve been true to myself. By the way, this isn’t a pity party. It’s just what I think.
2026-09-10 20:10:33
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imscaredoffemales
3mmvp :
i dont know if its possible , but from my recent relationship i have turned from hyper to a TMN. even i myself dont know why, but i hate the thought of somebody’s hands on my body. and its especially traumatizing to imagine touching anybody in general anymore. i just get so disgusted
2026-09-09 02:02:26
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elysiatok
elysia 🍵 :
some people just don’t like receiving and that’s ok!
2026-09-09 00:45:45
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cutesomesillysome
postergirl444 :
idk i get it, sometimes people just dont like to be seen in that light or dont like being touched in that context, everyone has their own reasons
2026-09-09 11:26:10
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eldermilesbian
Christina :
I don’t like to feel vulnerable because of several physical and emotional traumas in my life. It’s all good now because my wife respects my boundaries and loves what I provide for her.
2026-09-09 12:42:57
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gmrchiq
gmrchiq :
well I thought i was due to trauma etc. It was a safety mechanism for me. Then I fully let myself go and trusted my wife completly that is no longer the case.
2026-09-09 16:26:33
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jadaalynnn2
jadaalynnn2 :
I thought it’s their body their choice ??…
2026-09-09 01:04:50
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livsdigidiary_
livsarchivee :
A lottttt of touch me nots have been assaulted or something made them uncomfortable with it a lot of the times it’s such a disheartening thing to hear about
2026-09-09 19:56:59
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0006alex
Alex :
Trauma of being desired in those ways just bc ur masc rlly takes a toll. Especially at a young age.
2026-09-09 01:20:14
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kristendelmastro
Kristen :
SA for me personally
2026-09-08 22:11:04
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buhbuhbuggingyams
🪽 :
I’m not a tmn, but I’m respectfully assuming that maybe some people have gone through some stuff which causing them not wanting to feel pleased but to have others feel pleasured.If any tmn see this please correct me I im wrong
2026-09-08 19:20:35
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johkoh03
jol goldberg :
I used to be a touch me not bc i valued myself too much to just let any girl touch me and as i got older i slowly got out of that phase bc my hormones started acting out more and now i’m able to get touched & actually feel comfortable with it. i still have my standards and morals after releasing my touch me not phase
2026-09-24 13:44:35
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unicornacle
⁺‧₊˚ ཐི⋆Tyanah⋆ཋྀ ˚₊‧⁺ :
Cuz they just don’t like that grrrr
2026-09-09 00:46:59
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flungoutofspace_
🍂🎃FlungOutOfSpace👻🍂 :
Idk. Cause I don’t wanna be touched, probably. It’s uncomfortable and I don’t like it. I mention it at the beginning of every talking stage. If they don’t like it then bye….
2026-09-10 00:13:27
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ilikesoup243
Lizzy :
As a tmn, its a lot of different reasons, for me its past trauma and it makes me feel like feminine, not saying yhat getting touched is feminine but it js makes me feel feminine and disgusted also i js never really like getting touched sexually
2026-09-09 00:19:12
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cosiris
onionball :
Personally autistic lmao, hate being touched in general, makes me feel so out of place. I can only handle tolerating touching when I initiate it surprisingly
2026-09-10 00:08:19
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totallynotkyler_420
Kyler 🍃 :
i mean i’ve tried to not be a tmn but my body js involuntarily pull away everytime i’ve tried the only explanation ive come too is it’s a trauma response 🤷🏽 i think if i was comfortable enough w a person i MIGHT be able to let it happen but i genuinely don’t see it ever happening bc of my past
2026-09-09 22:49:35
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