@unhinged_and_moist: Thomas, if you see this you have a MASSIVE family waiting for you here! We all love you and everyone asks about you all the time. Last time I physically held you in my arms was 2010 when we went to the Denver aquarium. Your mom then planned to go to a mutual friend of ours wedding with the agreement that upon her return I get you for a lengthy time to make up for lost time. She agreed unknowingly to me, she never intended to uphold that agreement. As some time passed, mind you I was still in the service and had another 4 years to go on my 2nd contract, I was stuck there in Colorado. I had found out you were living at your moms dads house but only for a little bit. Something happened there that wasn’t good, not sure entirely what but again, not my place to tell that story. You then moved to your mom’s moms house. Short lived there too. Something happened there where police got involved and I received a lengthy police report on the events at that house. You moved then to Belding Michigan where I had a police escort to get you. We were denied at the door and told them they are in contempt of a court order. It was a few months later I received a phone call from your mom asking if I had sent child support to Michigan still. At the time I would send child support via western Union and your mom would go pick it up at the local Walmart. Well she had told me you guys were no longer in Michigan and instead in Nevada. I was told you guys were living with mikes mom as she was having some sort of brain surgery. Whether that was true or not, did not matter. She had stated that you guys haven’t moved yet and intend to. So we made an agreement that she should drive from Nevada to Colorado to drop you off while they continued their roadtrip back to Michigan to grab the household stuff before returning to Colorado to pick you back up, then continue back down to Nevada. Never happened. After some time I took your mom back to court to have the child support lowered as my income had changed from military to civilian. It was there under oath a judge asked your mom if you were still in Neveda and she stated they were not and current residency was in Minnesota. It was summer of 2019 when your mom gave me the username and password for her free legal from her work. It was then I got to talk to you. It was then I was given hope again I’d see you soon. That opportunity was taken from me just as quickly as it came. Please call me bubba, I miss you

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madelynnjanay
MADDIE :
lauren carr
2026-09-09 02:11:38
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honeybuns22_12
thatTaylorgirl :
So is his name Thomas Carr?
2026-09-12 15:51:59
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ethanwelch126
Ethan welch :
Love how he’s NOT bashing the mom and her life even tho he could. Real man
2026-09-09 13:47:54
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slothology
🧡 :
why does this happen to the dads who actually want to be dads. Just makes me so sad
2026-09-29 05:04:34
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sjohnson1119
sjohnson1119 :
I hope this reaches your son! Respect for how you did not speak down on anyone involved and owned up to your wrongs as well. Thank you for your service!
2026-09-08 22:57:51
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guiltyking30
GuiltyXKing :
And if nobody told you thank you for your service.
2026-09-08 23:39:32
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kellibfun
KelliB :
I can’t believe you have to pay child support when you’re denied access to your own child that’s ridiculous
2026-09-09 02:48:51
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vampy_anji
Vampy Anji 🪶 :
Parental Alienation should be a criminal act.
2026-09-09 15:40:54
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ssp_1985
floridagirl :
I hope you find your son.
2026-09-08 22:35:02
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abbi_0025
abbi🐛 :
Some people hate their ex more that they love their kid
2026-09-09 02:34:42
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szymoiffa4z
zerooki4 :
damn wasn't expecting this today on TikTok at 10am
2026-09-27 08:19:22
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missteak37
MissTeak :
Get an Ancestry DNA test! Your son might be searching. The test is a path forward.
2026-09-09 03:32:05
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jacsica22
Jess :
Parental alienation IS ABUSE.
2026-09-10 02:30:28
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kateland2cute
Kateland :
I was told my dad left when I was 2. One day my mom called and said your father is about to call you and she hung up. I was 18 when I found out the truth. He had been deported while working on his papers bc of a lie. I found out that he fought so hard to find me. I flew to meet him the following year and I’m so glad I just was able to get his side and have that relationship now. I pray yall find each other soon!
2026-09-09 00:27:37
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vril_dragon
vril_dragon :
How did she not get arrested for parental kidnapping?! That’s ridiculous.
2026-09-09 00:15:59
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rumelkzrvro
Lovey :
I will be saying prayers for you, that you are able to get in touch with your son, and have the relationship that you have been denied. Prayers that you can make up for lost time as much as possible. Best wishes to you and your son. 🙏🙏🙏❤️
2026-09-30 21:55:36
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darinyoung84
darinyoung84 :
as a son that my dad had to fight tooth to tooth with his bm for. i really do hope he speaks out and talks you. thank you gor your service brother🫡 keep your head uo
2026-09-30 21:46:37
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arianawhislerr
Ariana :
“Your parents” coming from his dad who actually wanted to be there. I’m so sorry and I hope he reaches out and you build a beautiful relationship!!!
2026-09-30 21:42:30
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jennymerri
JenMerrifield :
As someone who has experienced some narcissists first hand.. I'd guess Mike was distancing them from you and probably other family/friends and it wouldn't surprise me at all if he was abusive with it. Once they have control it's so hard to get away.
2026-09-09 00:28:47
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kimakennedy
KimaK💙 :
Me after your first sentence. You had my attention the whole time.
2026-09-10 02:09:18
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lickin_lemons
Natasha Green 🤠 :
I really hope your son reached out. This is so sad 🥺
2026-09-26 13:44:17
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unhinged_and_moist
Derrick Carr :
Excuse me while I get extremely vulnerable and explain myself. If any of his friends see this, please share this with him. Thank you ☺️
2026-09-08 19:06:45
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chadfox90
chadfox90 :
I hope he reaches out to you brother.
2026-09-08 21:55:44
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heywaaaamber
Amber :
Hoping tiktok does its thing!
2026-09-08 22:58:11
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shley_bee
Shleybee :
My mom had three kids with three different men, moved us once a year and hid us from all of them. I’m 43 now and she did it because she didn’t want to “share” us. Sometimes it’s not always that the men are bad fathers.
2026-09-10 18:04:06
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