@healingbythenumbers_: This week, I’m showing you how four days took me from preparing for divorce, to wanting to go back to him. Full story is on YouTube now (link in stories) if you’re impatient. Otherwise follow along for day 2 tomorrow. #DontgoBack #AbuseRecovery #DomesticViolenceAwareness #SurvivorStories #Divorce
In my grade 9 health class we will be watching “escape plan” in real time, starting at the end of September. I’m sorry this happened to you but thank you for making a difference.
2026-09-08 22:03:51
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ThotMum :
Everyone has a story, and whenever I see your videos I wonder. Does my ex even know I see him as my abuser? I got out after 8 years of a slow burn, toxic situation. He made me hate myself, question myself, made me afraid, made me want to self delete. But I never called him out explicitly as what he was in my life. It’s irrelevant now. But I do wonder, does he know that that’s how I see him in my life’s story.
2026-09-08 21:31:32
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candied0nion :
I’m so tired of seeing these right after they’re posted, i want the next part NEOW
2026-09-08 21:38:53
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sugarcubecornercrafts :
I’m glad you’re continuing the series because leaving is just the beginning.
2026-09-09 02:25:26
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raccoon-princess :
I'm glad you got out and I'm glad you're helping others get out by sharing your story
2026-09-08 21:24:03
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Jenn A :
can I ask what kind of therapy to seek after an abusive relationship?. I just left mine of 22yrs and month ago and I need to get my head "unfucked"
2026-09-09 04:16:10
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A :
You got together with him when you were 21? You were just a baby! 😭
2026-09-09 01:38:40
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Katharine :
I don’t know why, as I’ve seen the vast majority of your videos, but I hadn’t realised just how young you were when you first got together with your ex 😢
2026-09-08 21:25:32
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Nicola Robyn :
I am not happier since I left. I am less stressed and more relaxed... but not happy.
2026-09-09 00:58:48
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oopaloop23 :
NEW SHIRT
2026-09-08 21:22:14
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Megs_and_🐶Olive🇨🇦 :
I have to see mine for the first time in 2 years in 10 days. It is absolutely terrifying! We’re doing the lawyer thing too.
2026-09-08 23:52:30
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Stsh3585 :
I’m three years out of an abusive marriage and was finally starting to feel independent, like my life was actually mine again. But somehow he is still controlling it.
There was a lot of financial abuse, including loans and debts put in my name without my knowledge. A few days ago I opened my bank account and found out it had been seized because of a judgment I knew nothing about, and now my wages are being garnished too.
I’ve spent four days calling and reaching out everywhere, just trying to find someone who can help me fill out the court forms to ask for a stay so I can at least have a chance to defend myself. I have no money left, and if I can’t get this stopped before the end of the month, I won’t even be able to pay my rent.
I honestly don’t know where else to turn. I worked so hard to rebuild my life after leaving him, and I can’t understand how he can still have this much control over it three years later.
2026-09-09 02:36:25
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Chewie :
I’m DYING to know his reaction to all you have accomplished since you left him!!! and , of course him hearing what a SH he is….
2026-09-09 02:30:08
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P V :
😳😳😳
2026-09-08 23:14:28
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LoriS123 :
😁😁😁
2026-09-08 22:39:46
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