@thedevotioncode: When he pulls back, the worst thing you can do is send a needy text, especially if he’s avoidant. Instead, communicate like a confident queen and he’ll instantly feel: this woman is rare, she’s too special to lose. There are certain words and phrases that actually make an avoidant man want to open up. Here’s one of the magic ones: You say, “I could be wrong, but…” So, instead of saying “you never plan dates anymore” “you’re always on your phone”, which will make that avoidant pull away, even if you’re right about it. You would simply say, “I could be wrong, but it seems like you’ve been a little bit more distracted and on your phone lately. And I really love it and feel good when you plan dates and when I feel like you want to be here with me. Am I off base here?” Yes, you’re adding in extra words, but the WORDS are what opens an avoidant man. Because avoidant men, more than any other men, are sensitive to your words. That’s why the second you act insecure, needy, and start saying those need texts, he pulls away. If you want that avoidant man to always want to be close to you and feel like you’re too rare to lose, how you speak to him is everything. There are certain words and phrases that literally act like a magic wand over men, that activate their king instinct, that part of them that wants to put you first. When you use these words and phrase, men feel emotionally obsessed with you and when they feel that way, their devotion flows to you naturally, you don’t have to beg or force it. This is how I have my husband giving me queen treatment every single day. If you want a copy the communication formula with the exact words and phrases that trigger devotion, even from avoidant men, comment QUEEN and I’ll send them to you. 👑 (or dm me the word “queen”)

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