I’ve done this with my husband. I stopped chasing, I realized I was putting way more effort in so he didn’t have to do anything. I kinda lost myself. So I have entered my “selfish era” where I am going hardcore on losing weight, working out, becoming the hottest version of myself for ME. New hotter clothes, more time spent on my skincare and being outside, starting projects that don’t require him and that I don’t have to tell him all about. I also realized I was doing WAY TOO MUCH TALKING. My god, all the talking for both of us. 😂
2026-09-09 18:42:33
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annamaria23 :
I dont want to be chased 😂 I want to be left alone 😂😂😂😂
2026-09-10 21:58:02
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user612768711141 :
I have stopped chasing, stopped looking after him, stopped doing everything, stopped asking what he's doing etc
nothing has changed, he doesnt chase, doesnt plan, does absolutely nothing
2026-09-09 00:47:55
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Samba-Lina :
I did this and he just seemed to love the extra freedom and lied about where he was more , probably cheated for all I know. Yet still had me “around” as the safe partner
2026-09-09 08:32:08
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chantelle :
Holy face card
2026-09-08 21:42:22
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Ursula :
You made a video about 2 years ago about leaning back when people are not reciprocating vs chasing- I must have watched that video 50 times. People immediately pick up - even hard-core "I don't need you" type people pick up when you pull back. They will then lean in. We somehow believe "that person" holds the key to your happiness. Remove it from their hands, put that key in YOUR pocket and walk away. I was the poster golden retriever. You can literally just stop. You can still be friendly. But as you say- don't constantly be in other people's space. Pull back, disappear. Be warm vs cloying.
2026-10-12 08:11:21
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Kokokokonuts :
I learned that being nonchalant is the best way.
2026-09-08 23:18:33
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Mrs. G :
Married three years now and not chasing, simply receiving is wonderful.
2026-09-08 22:33:40
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Hannah Cooper :
More on marriage material! You said it took you a year to turn the tables in your marriage, can you give specifics on how you did this?!
2026-09-18 20:42:57
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dfghnjj0 :
Been happily married for 11 years. I never text or call my husband, unless it’s urgent.
2026-09-28 20:16:51
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Borgadorga :
Sun is doing WORKKK
2026-09-08 22:17:38
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Hey :
Over 20 years of marriage,and I’ve followed your page a long time and everything you say is the truth! A man NEEDS to feel like he’s chasing after a prize constantly. Early in our marriage I catered to him and did all the things you think a man wants, I tried so hard to be a good wife..but he didn’t treat me well and we were both unhappy. A man is happiest when you are selfish and put yourself first, become the prize. Be a little mean, my husband even admitted that he loves it.
2026-09-12 01:13:02
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pammarsden3 :
Always keep some personal space and time for myself. 💖
2026-09-30 19:15:16
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PumpkinHeartedVVitch 🌙 :
the eyeliner babe it's really working in your favor 🤎🔪
2026-09-08 23:32:24
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bake.w.stacie :
I stopped folding my husbands laundry
2026-09-10 19:02:38
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602492014778365 :
You are absolutely glowing. So beautiful. 💕
2026-09-08 22:33:27
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🌺Vivi🌺 :
I remember one of your videos you said something that stuck… I don’t pack for him, I’m not his mommy. 😂 And that’s the energy we need.
2026-09-09 12:49:00
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raindrops_and_roses__ :
Advice on husband’s indifference on anniversary 😥
2026-09-09 01:52:14
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maddison clark :
What if he’s a narcissistic unpredictable man
2026-09-09 14:23:49
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BrendaZ :
Sounds like my husband, wanting me to chase, and show affection, when he has been giving me bread crumbs for more than 5 years lol 😂 Not this girl! I can’t believe give 2 shits!
2026-09-18 04:31:19
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With_the_weeds :
I stoped all that and he started asking people how they went about getting a divorce and removed himself from our life more.
2026-09-09 20:00:01
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Savvy_ff :
I did this and he started cheating 😅 thank god I left as soon as he did with his bestfriend
2026-09-12 01:24:48
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mandee :
Why is it so hard to do 😩😩 but this is the key!
2026-09-14 02:28:36
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Flowerchild :
Omg you look AMAZING! Can we please get a run down of your makeup?!
2026-09-28 19:36:06
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martailem111 :
What if she stops chasing the both stop chasing
2026-09-17 02:27:20
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