No they don’t. The secure sets the boundary then walks away when it’s crossed
2026-10-14 18:38:56
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Nick :
I went from being confident and a little cocky, to having anxiety attacks and thinking lowly of myself.
2026-09-10 12:50:53
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Ryan :
been trying to heal from avoidant discard for months with the girl i wanted to marry. i was finally comfortable in my skin, confident, and in a good place and now i cant imagine being with someone again. i feel so broken from her discard all the time
2026-09-10 19:44:11
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Xanderall426 :
I’m never gonna love again
2026-10-14 19:40:54
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Shawn :
It only takes one avoidant to ruin your perspective towards everything, and it makes you not want to fall in love ever again.
2026-09-10 22:53:18
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zakhaeusyessuys :
Healing from this rn. Been in no contact for bout 3 months now. I am getting back to myself but holy shit I was a different person when all the lies was happening. It def messed me up but you can heal. Don’t forget there are beautiful people like you. You’ll be good
2026-10-14 19:02:47
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Madelin :
They will absolutely destroy your nervous system. You become more than just anxiously attached, your sanity ends and you no longer know what is real and what isn’t.
2026-09-10 00:52:41
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kingpenkev :
A true secure will cut off eventually, and a true secure will feel the loss and will sit and self reflect to make sure this won’t happen again.
2026-10-13 16:48:24
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Mego7 :
Speak up
2026-10-14 23:57:46
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Johnny Buboobony :
hurt ppl hurt ppl
2026-09-10 15:24:02
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B :
It actually requires your entire brain. Reactive abuse, betrayal, years down the drain and now you don’t know how to actually fall for anyone anymore or believe in the version of “love” you always believed in. It changes you.
2026-09-10 16:56:11
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ethvn :
An “avoidaint” is the dumbest thing I’ve heard of and is basically an excuse for someone that just isn’t that interested in their partner. If you were their ideal person they would give you that communication, effort, etc…
2026-09-11 16:26:07
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user13871893 :
The funniest part is they all think they’re securly attached
2026-09-10 16:31:28
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Cali :
period
2026-10-15 03:20:22
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Jake Witt :
Made me never want to get close or have a relationship again. It definitely messes you up.
2026-09-12 03:25:35
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la_Manuela. :
The problem is avoidants genuinely believed that they’re not avoidant. 😂
2026-09-19 23:23:18
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Slo Moti :
Secure attached guy here… I was single for almost 4 years and decided to date a woman who ended up being a covert narcissist with BPD and also avoidant/ disorganized attachment style and it absolutely ruined my life. Like I had to go to therapy for months. It kicked me back into being avoidant again and killed years or personal growth. -100/10 would not recommend.
2026-09-09 04:32:03
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Heather Nicole :
I don’t EVER want to cross paths with an avoidant EVER AGAIN. The damage that has been done is insane. Yes I’m healing, no I wouldn’t say I’m a “victim”, but if anyone has dealt with a true avoidant in their life, I am genuinely sorry because it WRECKS you.
2026-09-13 22:39:39
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_notdakotajohnson :
Her exact quote near the end was “you were so secure when we first started dating, what happened?” uhhh your abuse.
2026-10-01 13:14:46
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Jess :
They can’t stop, everything and everyone in the world is made for their comfort until they decide otherwise.
2026-09-11 03:02:05
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Bee ✨ :
I started leaning anxious because it was so bad
2026-10-08 11:55:20
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Noelle :
I was confident, kind, and outgoing. I became anxious, insecure, and a complete shell of my former self. The good news is that my confidence came back, and I feel great again! The bad news is that I'm terrified to date ever again. 🫠
2026-09-11 15:12:31
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elijahellis45 :
I’ve been healing from my avoidant for months now and it’s honestly so tiring
2026-09-11 02:27:54
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Justsomeguy1.1 :
even worse than that. my ex made me into what she was. thing is i see myself doing it. which is helping me change those patterns
2026-09-09 11:55:46
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Brandi :
Ugh I’m traumatized
2026-09-09 01:40:51
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