@betterthroughbetrayal: I think we have very different definitions of what being a “girls’ girl” means. Because I didn’t know sleeping with another woman’s man, entertaining him behind her back, helping him lie, or knowingly participating in her humiliation counted as supporting women. Yes, HE owes his partner loyalty. Yes, HE made the commitment. Yes, HE is responsible for betraying the relationship. But can we stop pretending that means the other woman is automatically completely innocent? If you genuinely didn’t know he was married or in a relationship? Different conversation. But if you knew about her and still chose to participate? I’m allowed to think that’s trashy behavior too. Being a girls’ girl doesn’t mean blindly defending every woman simply because she’s a woman. To me, being a girls’ girl means I’m not knowingly helping a man traumatize another woman and then demanding she protect my feelings afterward. You can hold the cheating man accountable and acknowledge when another woman knowingly did something hurtful. Two things can be true at once. 🤷‍♀️ And no, calling out crappy behavior from another woman doesn’t make me “anti-woman.” I’d actually argue knowingly sleeping with her man wasn’t exactly a huge act of female solidarity either. If you need help healing after betrayal go watch my free betrayal recovery training. In my biø. follow for more. You are not alone here 💜 #sidechick #mistress #otherwoman #betrayal #cheater

Meggs💜 :

She’s responsible too if she knew about you and your family. I’ll die on this hill.

jara :

The girl who had the affair with my husband knew he was married is a women’s only personal trainer and has a podcast about being a girl’s girl….

Daphnie :

If they didn’t know about me, I won’t hold it against the other women, but if they do know about me and do it anyway, bet they will be getting the same hate as the man.

Itsme41124 :

As a former side chick, even I don't agree with that. I think the situation matters and there are women who get treated terribly and they didn't know the guy was married and others that were severely lied to. They don't deserve the same wrath as someone who knew the truth from the jump. And in every case the man should get the same treatment as the AP.

mrs.misty.hooper :

The responsibility is equal. Both are liable. Some states have laws against alienation of affection and some states are going after the other person. Some states are calling infidelity as breach of contract too.

TheNoiseaChickenMakes :

My ex fiancé’s side piece, now his current gf literally messaged me to say he doesn’t want me and that I make his life miserable because I don’t let him do drugs 🙃 then she said I better be nice to her because she’s gonna be my stepdaughters step mommy 😭😭😭 like what we hadn’t even broken up at that point

victoriachiaa :

Agreed. The side chick knew about me and claimed to be a “girls girl” yet still pursued my ex. I finally left him and he went running to her. He’s no longer my problem.

sherrypatterson5 :

I agree with you 💯 percent.

Lilmysknowitall :

I will never support cheaters men or women..

a.perry35 :

Girl scream it. Been there done that, and I agree a million percent!

Jaid :

The girl who had an affair with my husband knew about me and the kids and harassed me for almost 2 years all “heeheehaha I have your husband”

Bridget :

I was a girls girl and let her know he was still trying to get back with me while sitting on her couch. For some reason that still made her not like me 😅

KelseyH :

if she knew of the wife, she is just as much to blame. if she didn't know...I am a bit more understanding.

Gloria :

Agreed

Patty Pantaloons :

My now ex’s side chick was fully aware. She felt entitled, had the audacity to tell me she respected our partnership and she never meant to interfere with his family life. So gross. A few months later and she thought she had authority to tell me I needed to move from my home and gave me a date, threatened me, by proxy threatening my daughter. And tried to make it like I was interfering in their love story. Mind you, when she told me I was going to have to move from my home It was three weeks before he ended his affair with her, and over the course of I think four months he only saw her approximately eight times in person. She reached out after he ended it and tried to give fake care and consideration. I didn’t respond to those messages, I did almost pee my pants, I was laughing so hard. Both trash.

🌺Jess🌺 :

All of my ex-husband's side chicks knew about me. One had a kid and he would take my kid to her house to "give me a break."

☆Better_3ra☆ :

PREACH[Perfect score]

elizag774 :

You get her and the husband! Its so stupid to say it was only one of them, they both did it and they both should be getting all the hate

Katrina :

Agreed 💯

Mommy_Vee :

Laura Thomassen :

she told me she was a girls girl too... but then still kept sleeping with him 🙄

Destiny :

say it louder!!

angryprincess :

She had her friends encourage her to go for my ex while I was less than a year postpartum, one of them was pregnant herself. She doesn't need my support. And I don't want to give it

PixieStick :

They say this because they'd do the same thing she's doing.

livinthedream_angela :

facts!!!!! my ex had his mistress at my house in my bed where all my stuff was and children she knew all about me