xoxo, cj •relationship burnout
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Apple :
What if in the meantime they are dating someone else
2026-09-08 23:42:13
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Savvy Cisneros :
I’ve been begging for space, and no touch for the past 4 months… I finally snapped from disrespecting and disregarding my requests and boundaries. ALSO, I hate the “we just have to try”…. Or “we have to choose to do this everyday” LIKE SIR…. IVE BEEN FIGHTING ALONE FOR YEARS AND CHOOSING YOU FOR YEARS WHEN YOU HAVENT SHOWED UP AT ALL…. So now I’m done
2026-09-08 23:20:43
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Nynke :
And where does the responsibility for avoidance lie? What should they concern themselves with regarding their own behavior?
2026-09-09 09:15:54
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catherine :
wouldn’t wish this on my worst enemy 😭
2026-09-09 02:31:21
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K•N :
How do you start communication if you have no reason to communicate after no contact?
2026-09-09 04:10:18
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jessie_rose_ :
I just found you after 2 years of him being burnt out. But is it all the same if he became burned out because I was sick (physically and mentally) and that’s why he had to carry everything? I am trying to keep my family together! I never “neglected” him on purpose. I was going through something I have since recovered from.
2026-09-09 06:32:30
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aarmslave :
I failed at lesson 3. I have little patience and can snap. I hate myself
2026-09-11 22:00:14
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Victoria Howze :
What if nothing was communicated about space and he just never came home and started assassinating your character?
2026-09-14 13:17:18
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gstyler79 :
I did just that. I told her I'd give her space...42 days No contact. She told a mutual friend she was pissed I didn't get in touch. So I got in touch and by then it was too late for her. She said she was happy with her decision and she felt calmer and better now.
2026-09-10 22:52:17
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doggybottompatter🐕 :
I’ve had space now for two weeks. He’s stopped trying to make small talk as well. The small talk was so draining for me! So I’m glad he’s stopped doing that. The only thing I really hope for is that he actually does the hard work for himself to find his truth and happiness. He always used to say he was doing the work, “I’ve been doing the work” while insisting that cooking tri-tip was his love language, he wouldn’t even take that dumb quiz and I’m a vegetarian.
2026-09-12 15:29:52
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meowmeowjpg :
My partner went straight to leaving the relationship vs wanting space. I did send them away from our home to be with family and I think the space is good. I’m ready to wait and give them time but it seems like she’s pretty confidently gone. She definitely seems depleted. I feel awful for not seeing how unwanted she felt to get here.
2026-09-09 10:05:55
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O’Shaun Wright :
We have 2 kids together and I always do my part. We have been around each other a lot more and have made physical contact multiple times. She goes hot and cold sometimes but I stay calm and speak warmly with her. Give her space and don’t talk about any relationship with her unless she brings it up.
2026-09-11 15:32:42
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. :
Does my partner count as burned out pursuer? Couple months ago found some messages with another girl, then asked me to move out and a break that lasted months. I kept asking for reassurance and questions and tried to be patient now my partner doesn’t want to talk me and say they’re depressed and cant. Even get very angry for texting or checking out on them.
2026-09-09 11:22:17
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Jenny 🐶 :
What if a burned out pursuer cheated? 🥲
2026-09-09 07:35:06
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Nancy Rose :
my ex husband wanted to start dating again, we spend the weekend together then said nvm because he is to scared and thinks we moved to fast 😭😭😭
2026-09-11 03:28:30
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incog :
I’ve been giving her space so we’ve been in no contact. It’s been over a month now should I initiate no contact or should I just wait until she reaches out?
2026-09-09 12:21:57
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Derekdelfrate :
We’ve been no contact for about a month, broke up in June and I was overbearing at first before she blocked me. Now I’ll be seeing her at school how long do I wait before approaching to talk?
2026-09-09 03:00:26
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Savvy Cisneros :
Also thank you for all of your insight it has helped a ton while navigating this journey
2026-09-08 23:20:59
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Hayley McDonnell :
I didnt react well when my wife ssid she wants a real separation. I regret it
2026-09-15 06:28:43
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throwsDumbUser :
What do you do if you need to be separate and you need to move out?But it's not financially possible for either of you in a divorce with financially rui both parties , it make life worse
2026-09-15 12:45:15
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Christian :
it's a two way street. there's stuff the wife did or didn't do that pushed the husband away too. you both gotta communicate and fight for your marriage. not give up and use this bull shit burnt out excuse. husbands get burned out too.
2026-09-09 00:05:13
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