and then they leave without explanation when they told you communication is what you guys needed, don't take accountability for the way they act and play victim as you stay feeling like you're talking to a brick wall
2026-09-09 13:26:38
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666thedevilsreject666 :
i get respecting space but you can’t talk for days to weeks can’t return my calls can’t make time for me but when i bring up ending things it’s i’m giving up at your worst moment. i’m dying without you and i can’t keep embarrassing myself clawing at you to see me
2026-09-09 12:37:22
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𓆩♡𓆪𓇢𓆸 :
Im both and he also sometimes both, we gonna hit 1 yr tgt this month. Im just glad we both didn’t give each other space and instead talked & communicated even if it was difficult to say the words, At least we tried and understood each other better. Im so proud of us we improved so much, If we could do it y’all can too. Animo chicos no se rindan ☹️
2026-09-10 10:32:38
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jamir :
it took going through a breakup for me to really understand attachment styles and realize how much my anxious attachment affected me. i’m honestly glad i took the time to learn about it, because i’ve picked up a lot of habits that help me manage the anxiety instead of letting it control me. it’s still there sometimes, but i’ve learned how to calm it down so that suffocating feeling isn’t nearly overwhelming.
2026-09-09 10:45:23
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kaikai🪽 :
My gf is an avoidant and I’m an anxious and sometimes it’s hard, but we took the time to understand each other. Has it been hard? Of course. Will we keep trying? Absolutely. She is my whole world and I wouldn’t give that up for some differences, no matter how difficult. We will be going on 1 year soon, and it has been the happiest year of my life.
2026-09-09 13:38:49
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Account Not Found :
omg the relationship im in rn
2026-09-09 18:20:56
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lilynexxtdoor :
Constant clinging isnt healthy at all. Taking space to sit with your emotions and then coming back together is key.
2026-09-09 16:28:23
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izzy :
like how am i supposed to make this work
2026-09-09 01:02:18
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ypc :
I honestly became numb.
2026-09-10 01:22:26
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ann.⋆♱⃓ :
deadass doesnt workout save ur time ☹️☹️☹️
2026-09-09 02:18:10
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alyvia ⟭⟬ ⁷ :
It was so draining lol now I’m gone and don’t care anymore
2026-09-09 18:37:19
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🦄 :
i went through this when i was 13
2026-09-10 02:22:12
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never doing this again
2026-09-10 04:11:06
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aflairforlijah :
oh well
2026-09-10 07:42:28
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bella :
having to beg someone to see u is so crazy i’ll never do it again like why do u not wanna see me to talk things out and i had to breakup w u over call 😭😭
2026-09-09 17:40:11
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Galaxy_unic0rn:3 :
As the avoidant it’s suffocating sometimes
2026-09-09 03:11:12
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𝐿𝒾𝓈𝑒𝓉𝒽🪽 :
And he still left at the worst time with no explanation, i have no choice but to give up on us
2026-09-09 16:08:31
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lyn.☘︎ ݁˖ :
i'm ngl as someone that's been on both sides of this, anxious is JUST as bad, you're pushing someone's boundaries knowingly.
2026-09-09 18:38:46
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killer_bait :
It’s the worst combo, it can work long term but it takes so much effort from both people
2026-09-09 11:14:44
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gisel :
And now I’m the avoidant 😳😳
2026-09-09 18:52:41
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